Hearts to Heaven

new blog

2011-01-01T10:30:00.000-08:00

I created a new blog...here is the new address...

quietsatisfaction.blogspot.com

Jamie

a work in progress...

2010-11-12T10:41:00.000-08:00

Today is a good day. New friends, new opportunities, new ways to help someone in need, new experiences. A dear friend told me that life is too short not to be happy. That has stuck with me. I'm trying to apply that to my practical life. We'll see what happens:)
The kids are great. Ava is in 1st grade and making straight A's (she is smart like her mom. lol). She is in gymnastics, she is a spark at church on Wednesdays, she has a couple good friends, but is a lover of everyone. She is a peacemaker and natural born "mother" figure.
Jacob is in preschool at WC. He does well in preschool, but has some excess energy that needs to be released periodically. He has 4 best friends...Ethan, Brody, Jake M., and Karson. He can blend in a crowd of 500. Just goes with the flow wherever he is. He is obsessed with star wars and light sabers.
Ty is now almost 16 months. He is my little man. He is such a blessing. Right now he can say "meow", "mama" (not sure if he means mommy or mt dew...he loves both). He is a screamer. One would think he was a little girl the way he lets it out. He runs, climbs on furniture, plays on the stairs, sword fights his older brother and his mommy.
That's all for now...

March update

2010-03-21T19:34:00.001-07:00

March is half over and spring is finally arriving...we were outside all of last week and it was amazing! Ty loves the golf cart...Ava has been driving it already and Jacob is eager to get his drivers permit this summer...lol...We've been doing well since my lovely hospital visit a few weeks ago...I didn't know how bad a back and neck could really hurt...and how much it could affect your entire system and mind:( I also learned a valuable lesson in drinking enough fluids...thought I was, but when I looked back....maybe 1-2 drinks every 24 hours...not good. Anyway, back on track....think I've found a wonderful doc who is actually listening to me and not just "blowing me off". They are hard to find let me tell ya...I'm not crazy and I'm not faking any of this....I am just seeking a normal life...nothing fancy or excessively happy...just normal...
Kids are great. Ava is learning about friendships and how to seek out "true" friends...Learning how not to be a tattle tale, but tell when it is something important to her...such a sweet and brave little girl...so mature for her age...I almost hate it...She is a natural mommy and strives to please everyone...
Jacob is a little lover...he's definately the keeper of my heart. He is learning how to be a gentleman...all the time...opens doors for ladies at church (sometimes have to break him away)...shakes hands with his right hand...learning how to be a big brother and teach Ty the good things of life...Jake is talking a lot about "good and bad choices"...we stress to our kids that they are never bad kids...but sometimes, like mommy and daddy, make bad choices. Jake is very smart and has a memory a mile long...he always knows his bible verses and can recite a poem for memory after one reading:)
Tyler has 4 teeth and is 8 months old...crawling everywhere...very dangerous...I think he'll be walking before 12 months. He smiles and loves everyone unconditionally. Has dimples all over his face...hair is getting very thick and long...almost has a mullet...lol...needs a haircut, but can't make myself do it...also is getting very dark...He is starting to attempt words instead of "aaahhhhh"...loves his feet rubbed with cucumber scented lotion...we rub feet every night...also loves to snuggle with his fam.
We're planning a trip to Michigan to see my brother and his family...me , mom , and all 3 kids...my brother has a wife and 3 kids...yes...6 kids...will be a blast...seriously.
Also, planning trip to Florida with kids this summer and probably to french lick for a night or two...I'd like to add a trip to Indy as well for a couple nights...we like to stay so we don't have to cram everything in one day...and so we can swim in hotel pool...
That's all for now.

videos

2010-02-02T08:10:00.000-08:00

Here's our latest cooking excursion...Friday morning around 730ish...

pictures

2010-01-28T12:03:00.000-08:00

We couldn't resist the manger scene at church...

the kids had to remove baby Jesus and add

Tyler B!

Ava and Tyler taking a nap together...how sweet...

Jacob acting like a T Rex on Christmas

morning...he's so funny...

Christmas with Shad's family...Shaylee, Ava,

Ty, and Jacob

My babies, ready for church...pictures by the

Christmas trees..."Oh mom!!!" FYI...it really

was coincidence that they all had on green

that morning...I didn't realize it till I got this

picture...

Jamie

omg...how long it's been...

2010-01-28T11:36:00.000-08:00

wow...I'm a horrible blogger...
Well, our last few months have been what I would call "normal" for 3 small children and jobs, house, etc...I'm sure my peers with the same would validate that statement...I really don't know that havine 3 kids is as bad as everyone said. It's definately more work...hardest times are packing up to go somewhere (sunday mornings are crazy here!) and bedtime. Ava is to the point, thank goodness, that she can and will put herself to bed, so I really only have the 2 boys...but Jacob is kind of in a scared stage...afraid of being in his room alone...he's doing better...just very hard to be consistent and make him go back to bed every time he gets up and is crying...it's hard not to just let him crawl in my bed and me make it all better:) And, Tyler...he sleeps all night...really always has...he just takes a little time to change his diaper, feed him, etc. But, wouldn't trade it for the world.....
I've been back and forth to Indy about a hundred times (seems like it anyway). Those of you who know me will know the situation...not great, but definately could be worse. Seems as though I've had every part of my body scoped or poked...not really any answers yet...not really any relief yet...Man...if I knew being 35 was gonna b this way, I'd have been more prepared...I've been turning on cnn and looking at what real suffering really is...makes my troubles look pretty simple.
Tyler's first tooth poked through Tuesday night...yes....I was in Indy and missed it. I knew it was coming cause we had been up all night (I mean all night) Sunday and part of the night Monday...he hurt so bad...tylenol just didn't cut it...I could see the tooth right under the skin so I knew there was really nothing to do but wait it out. He fell right to sleep last night...could tell it felt better already. Can't believe he has a tooth...aagghhh!!! He just smiles...he is the happiest, most content little guy I have ever met...except for B Swartzentruber...the only time he cries is when I pick him up...lol
Ava and Jacob are wonderful...they play so well together...Jake can be a little uncooperative and
Ava can be a little bossy at times, but for the most part, they play like best friends...I'm so glad they don't fight...don't get me wrong...they have their moments, but for the most part, good buddies...hope it stays that way. Jake plays dolls and Ava plays dinosaurs/mean guys...
Took the kids to see Generation X., Rubyz, and whatever the other group was called...it was so loud and obnoxious I about couldn't stand it...our house is just not a noisy house...my kids were both covering their ears...so sad. Anyway, the tough guy that broke the blocks (name?) said that he gets his power from Jesus Christ who lives in his heart. I about died yesterday...Jacob was telling Julie (babysitter) how strong and tough he was and that he (Jacob) had Jesus in his heart and that's why he is so powerful...omg...those little guys are listening when we least expect:) Ava is learning a lot in school now...was kind of boring her earlier in the year...I think cause she had been through preschool and a lot of what they were learning was review for her...but now they are reading and doing things that are somewhat new to her...I'm glad...she stays pretty busy with school/girl scout functions, church, playdates, etc. Jacob has started having playdates too and is so excited...E.E. (his bestest friend) and him have had a couple playdates here lately (thx so much for helping me out D). Now we struggle with "who's turn is it" and "that's not fair"...drama...
Well, that's all for now...I will try to post some pics...that is not a promise, however...

Happy Bday to me!

2009-11-18T10:21:00.000-08:00

I had a great bday...I'm officially 35 yrs old...
I got a very nice"paper" gift from my wonderful doc...he also bought everyone dairy queen on monday. Monday night, my wonderful mother fixed us a steak dinner. She also gave me a nice little gift and a card. My kids...so creative...Ava made me a potholder. Also a coaster out of the beads that you melt(?). Also a couple little cutout cards . Jacob gave me a santa hat, mike with one eye, and a card. Loved the presents...they were absolutely priceless. My husband told me he got me an appliance...one that I don't have but would use all the time. I was not excited. So I sadly opened this box to find a Flip! For those of you who don't know what a flip is...it's the size of a cell phone but is a video camera...high definition. It has a little pop out thing to hook into computer to download and save to cd. Love it...love it...love it...can just put it in my purse and will always have it with me to tape the little things as well as the big events... I love it. Then, to top it all off...yesterday when I got home, I had a new laptop waiting for me!!! What a wonderful husband I have. Oh, and Sunday night my MIL fed us a delicious steak dinner too. I am so spoiled!

update

2009-11-12T06:30:00.000-08:00

Well, we made it through the night...Ava looked awful at bedtime...fever only maintained at about 101 all night...way better than 104-105!! Both her and Jacob were put on Tamiflu by their pediatrician. Ava tested positive and Jacob is being treated empirically. Ty coughed through the night and has had a little diarrhea but that's all...he's eating and happy/content, so pray he stays that way! Doc said there is no need to quarantine...obviously contagious times usually pass before symptoms even arise...So, hopefully when fevers are gone, we'll be out and about once again:)

prayers...

2009-11-11T06:56:00.000-08:00

Please keep Ava G. in your prayers today...she's running 104-105 fevers since last night, all the symptoms of flu....being seen and tested this afternoon at Dr. Ruff's...pray for Ty and Jacob too, that they don't get what she has...Ty couldn't be treated if flu...he could potentially get really sick from it if positive...hope for the best:)

Hello world!

2009-11-10T11:28:00.000-08:00

Yes, yes...I'm back...everything takes a little longer now a days...anyways, here's our update:

Ava Grace
Ava is doing well in school...doesn't like getting up in the morning, but loves, and is so eager, to learn...She wants, more than ever, to be able to read. I think she's advanced a lot since starting kindergarten, but not quite there yet. She's my big helper and the greatest big sister we could expect. She is always willing to take the back seat when her baby and 4yr old brothers need some extra TLC...

Jacob Miles
Jake is in preschool at WC and doing well. He has been named best picker upper and his teacher says he is well-mannered, but has bursts of energy at times. Jacob loves his baby brother and is always trying to make him laugh...sometimes gets too close to his little face, but Ty doesn't care. Jake also wants to play, constantly...he loves when his big sister gets off the bus in the afternoon. They run off and play right away...He still loves his "mean guys", but we're kinda cutting back on that b/c we're having a little trouble with being scared of monsters in our bedroom...

Ty Barrett
Baby Ty is the cutest little baby...sweetest personality (like my other two)...most content baby...He has found his toes and fingers and wants to suck on them all the time...has a hard time getting his fat little legs bent to get his toe in his mouth, but keeps on trying. He is approximately 23 inches and 13 lbs...maybe even bigger...haven't been to our 4 month appt yet...My father says Ty is spoiled rotten, which is somewhat true, but he is our pride and joy still the same

Mommy and Daddy
Well, we see each other approximately 20 minutes a day (no joke!) between jobs, hunting season, kids, church, etc. Shad is in the midst of his hunting excursion. I don't really have any hobbies...and don't really want any...my kids keep me busy enough...having 3 kids wasn't as bad as everyone had told me...but I have a great nanny...Julie...who really makes life easier...I get to work and also enjoy my home and kids in the evening, without a lot of laundry or cleaning to do. Life is good...

sorry...haven't posted...

2009-09-14T14:23:00.001-07:00

Ok, ok, ok...all I hear, everywhere I go, is "did you read her blog?" "Did you know ... she had it on her blog" AGGHHH!! I haven't read blogs for weeks! I know last time I posted I said I'd post pics of the kids, but guess what...I haven't! AND...I probably am not going to for awhile...I, for some reason, really dislike the process of putting photos on the computer, editing, etc...Guess that's why I have someone else do it. Anyway, if you want to see baby T., email me and I'll give you info on his 8week pictures...really really cute. Or, you can always come and visit him in person...we love visitors!
Ava is in k now and Jacob at preschool...Kindergarten is kind of hard to get used to...a lot of girl drama...I mean a lot! Preschool is old news here, but Jacob is probably gonna bring it a whole new life! He loves it...His teacher told me he was the best picker-upper and a very good listener...WHAT!!!! She was sure it was my Jacob...I shouldn't say that, b/c he is a very good and sweet little boy...just very active sometimes! I've also received good reports from all of Ava's teachers...mostly that she is very well mannered and is very thirsty to learn. What else could I ask for...
Went to Turkey Trot over weekend...I don't care how trashy or dirty that place is...it's always a lot of fun. I think I had as much fun as the kids! I know it's a money pit and I really don't care. I get tired of hearing people trash it...I understand that if you're not a true Daviess County native, you'll never be able to appreciate it like we do...it's always been something we have done...since I was born I think...in early September. I see people there that I don't see all year! Great fun!! Go Trot!!!!
Baby crying...gotta run...

sorry...haven't posted...

2009-09-14T14:23:00.000-07:00

Truelove...Family of 5!!

2009-07-20T12:53:00.000-07:00

Welcome Tyler Barrett Truelove...aka "Ty".
7lb, 20.5 inches and sweet as can be...
Born July 18, 2009 at 2:52 pm...I was 36 weeks, 5d...he was gonna b a big boy at 40 weeks!
If you want any gory details of delivery ( and there were a few), you'll have to call me...I'm not gonna post that much detail on here for the world to see...some things were just meant to keep between family and friends:)
I'll post pictures at some point...Ava and Jacob haven't got to hold him yet...he was just released from nursery last night...so after they get to meet him, I'll get some pictures...Thx to all for your prayers, emails, and for being so patient with me during this pregnancy!

still here...

2009-07-06T08:15:00.000-07:00

35 weeks...and counting...everything still intact (as far as I can tell anyway) and still mobile, although I feel a little tired and unbalanced! July is already booked...almost solid...hope I can get all the bday parties and vbs overwith before baby T. makes his entrance into the world...but on the other hand...I'm just kidding...he needs to cook at least a couple more weeks...
Still trying to get my pictures posted...

still no pictures...sorry

2009-06-30T08:02:00.000-07:00

I have a lot...I mean hundreds...of pictures that I have not posted yet...I am thinking about it, but just haven't done it yet...
Updates on our family: hubby's cough is better...finally talked him into establishing with a family doctor...called for appt....no openings till august!! But we've made the first step...ptl
Kids are wonderful...so sweet and loving...not sure how I created such well-rounded kids...I have some pretty extreme moods...they must have gotten the "stable" genes from their father...Ava is such a mature little girl...I hate it sometimes...afraid she feels like she has to be...but, on the other hand...she is and always has been a little mommy to everyone around her...including me for the past few weeks...never concerned about her needs...never...always wants to give someone one of her favorite things or do something nice to surprise someone who is down...just this week, she found her little pink bracelet in her room...I think it was one of her first bracelets. She brought it out and said she wanted to give it to baby Emily b/c she is her only little baby girl cousin...Baby Mere is also her cousin, but we just don't see them as much...she's kinda adopted Em through Nanny Sue...Anyways...She had an absolute ball at HW with the girls last week...so glad they took her and so glad I didn't have to go in the heat...I'd have definately been a downer on that trip...
Jacob...still very intrigued with Spidey and superheroes...he's a sweet heart as well...he knows when to back down and doesn't like to argue...his little feelings get hurt so easily, but yet he is the bravest little guy I know...He's always wanting to do something for me or Ava b/c he is a "tough guy like daddy"...we always tell him we're scared of bugs or whatever so he can show us his bravery...eats it up every time...He went to HW with his friend E.E (Ethan) a couple weeks ago and it sounded as if they did great too...My kids would be deprived if it weren't for my good friends:)
Ordered the new "ride" this week...new golfcart (NEV) should be here in 3-4 days...If you live anywhere in the neighborhood, you'll probably see us driving around...this one has a horn, so if we see you, we'll honk!!

late entry

2009-06-23T06:06:00.000-07:00

Well, it's been awhile since I last posted...have a lot of fun pictures, but will not have time to get them up today. Updates on family:
Hubby is down...been sick for 3 weeks...won't establish with a doctor. I told him we are to the age we need to be thinking about preventing problems in the future and need to have our yrly bloodwork done, etc. Of course, if it's not broke, don't fix it. I'm still working on him...hope it's not swine flu!
I just got back from Nashville TN with my good friend, Stephanie. We had the national AANP conference...was gone from Tuesday till Sunday...was a nice trip, a lot of classes/learning/notes/etc. Also, was quite tiring for little baby and I. Steph always takes good care of me. Ended up being seen at 1 am at Vanderbilt University Med. Center in Nashville (always wanted to see the place, but not in this capacity). Preterm contractions continue...but were every 6 minutes for 3 hours, so thought we better check it out...turned on the Garmin, and took off. Got home at 5am...Ending diagnosis...I am having true contractions and am making some unwelcomed progress at 33 weeks prego (too early to be making progress). Potassium is low, anemic, feet are like balloons (seriously...have never had so much swelling in my life). But, back home where my docs are taking good care of me and watching things very close...baby is now getting some steroids to develop lungs a little faster in case the little feller decides to make a surprise appearance.
Kids...I think all in all, they are without problems at this time... Ava has been fighting a cough and low grade fever, but is hopefully on the upside of that now. Being so sweet...letting mommy rest, rubbing my back, feet, etc....Playing a lot on their own which I hate at times, but am so proud that they can see mommy needs some rest now. They are so compassionate and caring kids...I try and make sure we do something special every night...at least read some books or snuggle for a show or something.
Well, I'll try to get pictures up sometime soon...until then...no news is good news I guess

New additions to family...

2009-05-19T05:51:00.000-07:00

OK...so here's what happened...last night, hubby was mowing and we were inside taking baths, etc. In the front yard, Ava saw Shad off the mower, down by the road, looking at something...it wasn't 5 minutes later until we heard..."Ava, Jake....come and look what I found"...at that point, we ran to the kitchen and daddy showed us a baby bunny he had "found in the yard". Anyway, he said there were actually 2 and he would go get the other one so each kid would have one to care for. Of course, Ava fell deeply in love and Jacob did too...I think...he was more interested in seeing if the bunny's eyes would blink if he touched its eyeball...So, we got on the golfcart, retrieved the other bunny and headed to Nanny Sue and Uncle Pat's house for a bunny consult (Pat is an expert wild game reference:) Pat, so considerately, gave his kind opinion that we should "probably put the babies back and see if their mom would move them"...AKA..."I'd love to take them out back and blow their brains out"...hahaha...you just have to know uncle Pat...ANYWAY...as the story went on, I found out that actually there "were" 4 bunnies and possibly a mother, however, my husband (failed to tell me this at first) chopped up 2 of them in the mower, and these were the 2 orphans left behind...no wonder they didn't move or blink their eyes...I wouldn't either if I was that close to a mower blade...So, after much deliberation with the kids and convincing, Shad said he'd take them back out and see what happened overnight...if they continued to be stranded, we might consider caring for them...or trying at least. Well, this morning, Ava was up at 6:30 am and asked daddy to go check on bunnies...well, guess what...not there...BUT, he said he put them in the "tall grass" which means readily accessible to Sam, the dog...I didn't say anything, but wonder if the other two lives were taken through the night, supplying a nice meal for the family's yellow labrador...there's probably gonna b a lot of drama tonight in our house:) Oh...the funniest thing was while at Nanny's, we put some lettuce and carrots in their little box for them to eat (knew they prob. wouldn't)...Jake got tired of waiting on them to devour their meal...we found him eating the carrots out of their box...so innocent...didn't even know he was taking their only chance for survival! LOL!

Here are the varmints...Jake's is Ty and Ava's is Brown Eyes...Jake said he's saving the name "Brad Jennifer" for mommy's baby..."this bunny is Ty"

Close-up of Brown Eyes...scared and probably having some PTSD (post traumatic stress) from the lawnmower blade ripping up his siblings

can't come up with title...

2009-05-14T11:38:00.000-07:00

Well, life is pretty well unchanged in the Truelove household...that's always good. Last night after AWANA we were all kinda filled with energy (probably cause I was off yesterday and kinda took it easy), so we took some video and pictures to send to Grandma who has been in Michigan visiting my brother and his family for 2 whole days...yes...I said 2 whole days...my heart goes out to Tera, with losing her gramps...I so agree that kids need their g'parents to help nurture them...parents just aren't enough anymore...I'm glad you're back here Tera...You guys are blessed with 2 wonderful sets of g'parents, just like you were (are) with your gramps...and I'm so glad he was so at ease in his last moments...sounds like it was all planned...like you said...almost can consider it a perfect process by the way you described it...

Anyway, here is one of our pictures from last night...

Ava has been "posing" for me lately in these hot little gymnastic numbers like you see here...poor Jacob was like a little manequin...she was yelling at him by the time we got the picture b/c he would not do what she wanted for the picture...I finally told her to let him stand behind you and...SNAP...got it...she can be a little bossy if you get to know her...definately a girl who knows what she wants...Jacob, I think, is gonna b more of a follower...not good news to me...I'm gonna have to really scout his friends as he gets older...He would probably do anything she told him to do...like a little puppy dog, but so darn sweet and warm-hearted...
I just noticed my toes in the picture...sorry you all had to see my foot...at least my toes were painted.
For any of my 5 yr old sunday school class parents reading this: Our 5 yr olds are singing their new and old books of the bible on sunday morning at the park for church offering...May not find all of you before service, so trying to get the word out...
Well, my days of prego are coming to an end...bittersweet...this has been the absolute worst pregnancy so far for me, but the little man as a reward will make it all worth it...knowing he may be my last is kinda sad, but happy and excited to see him!

Jamie...

2009-05-11T10:34:00.000-07:00

Well, it happened last night...Ava's dangling tooth finally came out...with a little help from her mama:) She got brave while playing at grandma and papa's and said I could pull it when we got home...she kept her promise...I try not to let her notice how grossed out I am by pulling teeth...seriously, I get chills down my spine and an upset stomach just watching her twist and wiggle that thing in her mouth...then, the thought of grabbing it out of her precious little mouth and yanking it out of her sweet little gumline...just sounds wrong! Anyway, for the second time, she didn't make a sound, but laughed and was so proud...Jacob watched in amazement...he was cheering her on the whole time...I know...we are really lacking entertainment at our house...
27 weeks prego today...whew! Still having some rapid heart rates...right now is 124-130...get short of breath and kind of burn in my chest with my increases, but everyone seems to think its anxiety and nothing else...PTL!! One of the girls I work with brought me in a barstool to sit at when I'm working on patient charts up by the reception desk (away from my office)...kinda funny...we call it the "princess chair"! Every bit of relaxation I can get helps...

Kids are growing up...

2009-05-07T11:23:00.000-07:00

Here are a few pictures from our last week...My good picture of Ava's teeth won't upload, so I may not get to share her true smile...

Yes, she lost her tooth...Now has one hanging...is crooked and right in the center of her mouth...she can't drink from a sippy (which is fine, cause she's too old, but ole' mom lets her anyway).
This is Ave ready for her preschool program last night...It took me longer to french braid and fix her hair than the program even lasted! Oh well, she was very cute...

Here are Trista and Ava at their annual preschool program...I'm sure they get so mad at us for making them pose all the time...Tried to get the boys to join in, but Jake was not interested and Brody was shy last night...

Here is a picture of Jacob...Ava took this one...she is a good little photographer...also, she is a great floor mopper...she mopped my whole wood floor the other night and, no kidding, did a great job...it was shining and spotless!

Here are our girls with their class getting ready for their performance...they both knew their songs really well and got into the motions...we were quite proud of both of them...Jake will b up there next year...may b interesting:)

update...a little behind...

2009-04-28T05:52:00.000-07:00

Well, I was waiting to post until I took some more pictures, but still haven't so thought I better update on our household...Last week was a bit crazy...a bunch of guys from Minnesota and Alaska (? I Think) were here turkey hunting...so we had houseguests a couple nights and a big lunch for everyone at our house over the weekend...The kids loved having the "boys" around...especially Jacob...had his toy rifle out all weekend...shooting any creature that moved in his reach.
Saturday night was prom at BR...got to go and see our lovely Brittany at grand march...I remember when she was a baby...can't believe she's a senior...and Jon...her beau...what can I say...we just love him...perfect fit into the family:)
Also had Todd and Amanda's reception Saturday night...it was fun, but I was kind of a deadbeat b/c my back was completely shot. I had trouble standing up it hurt so bad...Sunday, then, was ok...until afternoon/evening...I was on the couch/heating pad most of the day. My husband and the kids flew their kites and went to Orchelin to look at baby chicks and buy a fish feeder.
Jacob is still on antibiotics...had been sick for a little over a week, but you know me..."tough it out Jacob"...didn't want to run to the doctor for every little sniffle. Well, I gave in Thursday...Dr. Ruff said he had some ear wax blocking his one tube (permanent ear tubes in both ears), which was causing some fluid backup (again), had sinusitis, and very congested lungs...probably on the verge of pneumonia (I'm so used to sick kids...just glad he isn't requiring 17 iv sticks and 2 jugular lines this time...had that at Gateway when he was a baby for rotavirus).
25 weeks pregnant and counting...definately feel pregnant now...baby kicking everywhere...the kids got to see my belly bulge with a couple kicks last night, so that kinda made it reality for them. Ava wants to name the baby Jamal...think she heard that name on little Bill...Max was her favorite, but she decided on Jamal since Max was on Max and Ruby. I still have my own favorites...will probably go with one of them...Jacob's last request for a name was "Jennifer Brad Truelove"...the Swartzentruber's are lovin that name, but I don't think it will work out...better come up with something a little more original:)
Last week, at the park, Ava had major facial trauma after falling face first (yes...total impact on her face) from the bar thing that slides across the track when you hold on...she had done it several times and was fine, but accidentally let go this time...She had a huge knot on her forehead, nose was swollen and bruised, etc...I didn't go to er...just watched her and think she's gonna be ok...nose finally back to right size...the good out of that ordeal is that it knocked her loose tooth a little looser...she got really brave in church last sunday and said "mom....lets go pull that tooth...I'm ready"...well, church or no church, I was not passing up that opportunity...so we headed to the bathroom during Shawn's sermon and yanked it out...the rest of the service consisted mainly of blood and snot (from Jacob)...being a mom is so glamorous!

week in review...

2009-04-16T10:40:00.000-07:00

This has been kind of a boring week...I guess that's good...we haven't done much...I've been doing my usual...going to work, laundry, dishes, baths, etc...Been trying to rest in between endeavors...my back has been giving me grief, so my heating pads have been fired up all week...kind of depressing cause I know it's gonna get a lot worse before I'm done.
The kids had their 5th easter egg hunt last night at awana...I think they had fun...we're gonna start up our "chore charts" again, starting tonight...I'm trying to come up with challenging jobs, but not too much...one of their "chores" is to go to bed without a fuss...seems pretty easy to me:)
I need to think of a good reward to entice them with...it's amazing how much more willing they are to do things/go to bed/etc...if there is a reward in sight....guess that's human nature.
Tomorrow is supposed to be warm and beautiful...we may just have to do something outside...of course we have preschool in the afternoon, so most of the day is shot, but it will do us well to get out of the house.
AND...by the way...may I just highly recommend a massage at Amber Jo's...I've been going routinely for a couple weeks now to try and loosen up my back/neck...it worked before when I did it...took about a month or so, but helped...I think I may have to do this until I have the baby...won't hurt my feelings!!

Funny stories...

2009-04-13T12:46:00.000-07:00

FYI: I have a great story on my Jacob...Several people comment to me that they just love his stories...it's a good one, but for his sake, I'm not gonna post it...ask me next time you see me:)

Easter Egg Hunts Galore!

2009-04-13T06:19:00.000-07:00

We had a busy, fun-filled weekend...my kids were absolutely crazy 24-7...wound up...

Friday, we had preschool and then headed to Darla's for supper...we were there around 4ish and stayed until evening...the kids colored eggs and played...the adults had conversation...I forgot to even take pics that night...Darla got a good one of Jacob with a whole egg in his mouth...pretty hilarious.

Friday night, we had a slumber party at mom and dads...well me and Jake did...Ava stayed with Memaw overnight. Saturday morning, we had Claire's baby shower...it was nice to sit and kinda catch up with Jess G. Then, off to the Gasthof for lunch and the big Easter hoo haa that my kids talk about all yr long...We rode the barrel train (got really mad at parents with kids running wild everywhere), the carriage, and of course hunted Easter Eggs...again, I got really upset with parents...seriously...were dragging their kids by the arms through the eggs...making sure they got them before the other kids whose mothers did not accompany them (that would be me)...Then, it was also pretty heart-wrenching to watch Ave's group...those kids were like animals...poor Ava and Maggie...they were the ones who didn't push and shove and they only got 1-2 eggs out of the whole yard!!! I told Ava she would be rewarded for being so humble and sweet...Here are some pics of that day:

Saturday evening, we had another easter egg hunt at Country Gma's...the only kids there were Jake and Ave...so they got all the eggs!! I know that's being greedy...forgive me...we had a great meal and pretty good conversation...I was feeling kinda quiet, but I took it all in and had a full belly when I left.

Sunday morning was not easy...I got up at 530, got ready for church, woke kids up at 6 to open their easter baskets, then tore through the house to get them ready for church...well, as usual, we were at church by 6:50am and didn't start til 7:15...we're always first there...with my dad...I thought the kids did well for being so tired...we had sunrise service, a great breakfast at church, sunday school, the regular sunday service, then back to mom's for lunch...Here are some easter pictures from Saturday evening...

Sunday evening, we spent some time with Darla...had another easter egg hunt at her house and ordered pizza...then, off to bed for the night!

what am I gonna post?

2009-04-09T07:13:00.000-07:00

I really don't know what I'm gonna end up typing on this post...really don't have a topic at this point, but needed to post something!
We've had a kinda rough week at our house...with momma's prego complaints and everyday stuff, my poor husband and mother have been basically running my show...which is great...I don't know how people without family ever get through tough times.
This week has been pretty uneventful...we've been home or at moms most every night. Getting ready for a busy weekend ahead...a few easter egg hunts, 3 dinners, early church service on sunday, etc...
I'd say the kids will be beat tonight...they are spending the day with Jen and her kids...yes, she is gonna have 5 today...she'll be the one who is beat tonight...They were both so excited...usually they sleep on the way to the car in the morning and the whole way there...then go back to bed when they get to the sitters...not today...bright eyed and ready to wreck Jen's house probably. Sometimes it's easier to have friends over to entertain the kids...we'll see how it goes...Thank God for great friends...
This is the last day of work for me this week...ready to be home for a couple days...even though it's harder work there...
Everyone have a blessed Easter holiday weekend and maybe we'll see you out at the easter egg hunt on Saturday (Gasthof has it every yr...bunny there, kid events, etc...my kids look forward to it every yr)...

family vacation

2009-04-02T05:27:00.000-07:00

We couldn't decide what kind of family vacation to take this year, before baby T. arrives...the kids had a lot of fun at Caribbean Cove last year (Indy), so we decided to take a 3day trip to the new indoor waterpark at French Lick...Here are some pictures from our vacation!

Ava going head first down the kiddie slide...she went down the bigger slides too...I was surprised...but I couldn't get good pictures because they were tube slides

Jake and Daddy in the lazy river...Shad had Jacob convinced that these innertubes were boats and that he was a really brave boy if he rode on top.

Day 2, after a morning in the waterpark...decided to lay down...the kids said they weren't tired, but I think this picture explains it all..

Overall a great trip...would highly recommend this waterpark...you can go for just a day trip and not stay all night...it's all indoors, so no messy sunscreen, etc. Something fun for every age...babies to adults...

Jamie

spring break!

2009-03-23T11:55:00.000-07:00

Different from everyone else, I (Jasper) am on spring break this week! I'm off Tuesday through Friday and have some fun stuff planned with the kids...will be a busy week for sure! Not much going on at our house....we have a new nanny/sitter starting the first week of May and are very excited about it...Kids are beside themselves and love her to death...couldn't have asked for a more perfect blessing!
We're having revival meetings at church this week...would like to go, but a lot of times don't hear much anyway with the kids wrestling around...we do pretty good on sunday morning, but to ask for more than once a week is a lot for them:)
Thanks a million to a great friend who re-faced my blog...love the new look and updated pictures...these are from our first fishing outing at our house this year...this is at our pond behind the house...didn't catch any fish, but had a good time and enjoyed the warm temperatures...
I may not be back until next week...will see how it goes, but usually don't do much computer work during the day and will probably be very busy at home...have a great week!

half way there!

2009-03-19T08:39:00.001-07:00

I'm almost officially 20 weeks pregnant! Half way cooked...really, for me, probably more than half way because my babies are usually early...Had my fetal survey done today at the office...here are some pictures...I know they're hard to see...
If you remember, this was my baby boy at 9 weeks:

This is my baby boy at 20 weeks...His hand is waving and his thumb is almost touching his nose...for those of you who can't see ultrasounds...

This is baby boy Truelove from a side view...his face/head are to the right, chin is tucked down to chest and knees are bent up...in a "fetal" position....you can see his face profile...looks like he's resting.All his measurements are right on target, his hands are open, heart has 4 chambers, vessels look good (there are 3!), his little feet measured approx. 1 and 1/4 inch...how cute! All organs present and functioning properly...Total weight gain so far is 7-8 lbs..

pictures

2009-03-18T08:30:00.000-07:00

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prayer request

2009-03-16T11:51:00.000-07:00

Please keep Andrea Boes and her family in your prayers...She has fought a long, hard battle with cancer and is in the final stages of her life. She is resting comfortable, according to family and friends, but is not expected to make it through the week. She is leaving behind a husband and sweet little boy.

beautiful weather

2009-03-16T11:14:00.000-07:00

Finally, a weekend of pretty weather...yesterday, we went to church, ate at Darla's, went to walmart to buy new bicycle helmets, and spent the entire day outside. It was so nice, until the sun went down/clouded up...we decided to take a golf cart ride to mom and dad's which turned out to be quite chilling. Mom gave us a big blanket for the ride home...looks were definately deceiving! Last night, we had small groups at Matt and Jess's which is always packed full of good conversation.
Saturday, we did our weekly lunch with mom and great city grandma...kids were really good...we got some great bargains at knickers and petticoats, but Jacob left his "mean guys" there, unknowing to his mother at the time. So, at lunch, I called and told them to please find his guys and put them at the front register. Thank goodness they found them all in the dressing room...guess he was off playing while I was so intrigued with my bargains...Saturday night, we fixed steaks on the grill for Darla, but the steaks went up in flames...They were charbroiled to say the least, but we used other means for our supper and still had a nice time.
Friday of last week was haircut day at Amber Jo's...Everyone did fine...no major drama. Ava was very concerned that she was gonna get a haircut instead of a trim. She is determined to have hair down to her bottom (we'll c), so any type of hair cut is a little traumatic for her. And, ever since Jacob's father cut him a mohawk (to b funny), he has been pretty scared of cuts too. Poor little kids. But, we did well and headed to McDonalds for our weekly happy meal before preschool.
This week, we have nothing huge planned...Ava had her St. Patty's day party at school today...she went all decked out in her green. We'll see how it goes. Wednesday at preschool is backwards day, so that will be great fun...Looking forward to next week...I'm off some during the week due to Jasper spring break, so we're gonna hopefully do some playing at the park, etc. We're gonna be visiting the Big Splash Adventure at Fr. Lick in the next couple weeks...can't wait to see how it is...just opened last week for the first time. We absolutely loved Caribbean Cove in Indy, so I'm anticipating a good time...it's our mini family vacation before the baby arrives...

winter is back!

2009-03-11T08:37:00.000-07:00

Man! I hate winter and cold weather! I'm so disappointed that this weekend isn't gonna be like yesterday! We are suffering major cabin fever and need to get out. My kids are learning to drive the golf cart...Ava does really well...but you know Jacob...he's kinda crazy with it. They have really been itching to get their bikes out and ride to nanny sue's...I let them do that once last summer and it must have left an impression...they think they are big stuff, riding on the road!
We're still searching for the perfect nanny...I know we've found her, but we're working out details as we speak. It would just be too good to be true, but might be the answer and blessing I've been waiting for. Thx for all your suggestions...hope we dont' need anymore!
Cubbies and Puggles tonight...can't wait. I hear Jacob is a pretty smart little dude in his class...he is always so distracted, but never misses a word. Ava never knows if they even had a story or not and he can recite the whole lesson..haha!
Still prego...almost hit the 20 week mark...still nervous...
The kids had alaskan salmon last night at Shad's moms....we told them it was chicken and they loved it...ate a lot...then, broke the news...hope I didn't scar them for life!

field trip

2009-03-05T07:56:00.000-08:00

Ava's preschool class went to Mr. Gatti's yesterday...our favorite pizza place! Jen and I chaperoned...I'd forgotten how many kids were in that class...whew! It's just amazing the different kids and how different the behaviors are...kinda like you can see their parents right through them??:) My time is probably coming, but I have to say that our girls were very well mannered/behaved. Never once did I see either of them push to get through, whine to get a turn, etc. We had a small melt down at the end that possibly could have been bellyache related??? Maybe just drama...one will never know. The good news is that it resolved as soon as we got in the car...Me and the kids (Ave, Jacob, and Trista...my other child...LOL) got our baths, and went to fat boys for some yummy breadsticks, then off to cubbies and puggles. Ava did fine, but Jacob was really tired and really grumpy and really thirsty from what his puggles teachers said! But, we all made it just fine and had a decent nights sleep.
Hoping for a warm sunny weekend so we can go outside...we're all about stir crazy in the house...
Go BR in sectional!!! We won't go...never do...I would kinda like to do that, but my husband always has more important things to do and is not interested in high school basketball...I'm not really either, but something to do to get out of the house and socialize...and kids would love it!

prayer requests

2009-02-25T10:36:00.000-08:00

2 prayer requests...
1. baby Emily Ash...she's not feeling well again...poor little baby...she's not had a good winter...
2. Andrea Boes...anyone who knows her knows all she's been through...she's had a tough road and is still getting bad news from every angle...seems as soon as she thinks she's in the clear, another tumor shows up...this time she has some more extensive involvement...she's had multiple radiation/chemo treatments, multiple surgeries, etc...is married with a little boy...sweet, sweet girl with a lot of faith and hope...even at the roughest times...and I'm sure no one knows how much pain she has suffered through it all...pray for healing and strength

3 weeks later...

2009-02-24T11:00:00.001-08:00

Ok...again, I'm sorry it's been so long...and again, I have no pics to post...I have pics, I'm just too lazy to post them. LOL...
Kindergarten round up is friday...why they make these things on work days I'll never know...I'm lucky that's my day off, but most people work on friday...guess the staff doesn't want to come in on their days off...maybe??? I'm a little nervous about teacher selection...I never know whether to let things ride and pray for the best or to step in and make requests...I think this year, I'll take everyone's advice and request...then, pray for the best.
I'm sure you all know by now, I'm without a babysitter right now...I have a few leads and a wonderful friend who is watching my kids until I find someone permanent...I would like someone to come to the house...and I'll pay them well to do so...I'm pretty easy to work for, I think...I just expect my kids to be watched and cared for...and a few house things...I'm so negotiable, really...I just want what's best for the kids, ultimately...someone who truly wants to be there and would enjoy my kids as if they're their own...if anyone knows of anyone, please send me an email...
jrtruelove@hotmail.com
...and...I'm off every Fri, Sat, Sun, so it would be a full time job, with full time pay, for 4 days per week...I usually have backups if sitter would need a day off here and there...I can usually arrange for early pickup if necessary...at times...I just want someone who takes a job seriously...to me, watching someone's kids and helping raise them, is more important than any job could ever be...if anyone is interested at all, please at least call me or email me so I can tell you what we have to offer...I realize it's not easy...but I think we take care of our sitters...I think they are pretty pleased with our "package"
Prayers continue for baby Otto who just came home today with an RSV scare...
Prayers also continue for Chelsa, Ryan, and B
Pregnancy is going ok...6 lbs in 1 week, for grand total of 8...I'm a little over 16 weeks now...and hope I don't continue this weight trend...I"ll be huge...But, I really am not worried....I only gained about 12 lbs with Ava and about 15 with Jacob...we were always concerned that I didn't gain enough....I think this one may b different:) It's a boy and we're very elated...we really truly did not care...I've learned that I love both genders...They're both a true joy and have their own unique traits...I just hope and pray for good health and a healthy baby...I've never been so worried...I'm really a basket case...Thought it would get better by this time...but I think it's getting worse... I'm also a major worry wart with my 2 kids...get worse as I get older...by the time my kids have babies, I'll definately be in the loony bin!

long time...

2009-02-05T11:59:00.000-08:00

I was jumped last night at AWANA about how long its been since I've updated...sorry...I tell ya...I've been in a complete fog for about a month now...I am completely flat, lifeless, and transparent half the time....people keep telling me its the hormones...hope they're right...hope I'll get back to somewhat normal before long.
I'm so ready for summer...I think I've got the winter blues...I need some natural vitamin D from the sun:) It's hard to be in a good mood when there are such sad things happening...my heart goes out to Chelsa, Ryan, and B...and all the family...no one wishes these things on anyone...but it could happen to any of us...at any time...we all need to count our blessings:) And...Chelsa...you know you guys will grow stronger through this...You're probably tired of hearing all the encouraging phrases...but I think everyone is kinda "wordless" right now...we're here for you in any way you need us.
Hoping for a warm weekend...and some energy!

back to normal???

2009-01-20T06:00:00.000-08:00

When I got home last night (after an hour long trip from Jasper...just figured the sun would have melted more snow/ice than it did)...my husband was already home, the kids had already roped him into a wii bowling tournament...well Ava anyway...I'm not sure how serious Jacob was about it...they had already decided to order pizza from Mr. Gattis...he said that's what Ava wanted...even though we've been eating Mr. Gattis pizza since Friday...she failed to mention that everyone else was tired of pizza:) They already had their baths (wonderful babysitter!), so we were parked in the living room by 7...playing the Ladybug game and watching tv. Our bedtime ritual started around 8 and I think my body landed in bed by 9...pretty good really. Jacob went right to sleep and stayed that way all night. Ava kept waking up saying that she was having bad dreams about moles...yes moles...I have no idea where she's ever heard or learned about moles. She said their big buck teeth were chomping holes in our floor and they were coming in and getting in her bed. She was camped out in our bed by around 2am...she sneaks in when we are sleeping and we, honestly, don't know it some nights...until we wake in the morning. I kept dreaming about Dr. Ruff doing foot liposuction on me...crazy I know. I think we've seen Dr. Ruff too much lately????
Jacob was without fever all day and ate a good supper...his throat is still swollen, but I think better...and his neck is still swollen (lymph nodes...you could actually see the swelling at one point), but he is acting better. I could tell he wasn't "normal" yet, but maybe getting there???
That's all for now...we have no exciting plans this week...the kids were excited about going to see our babysitter's new niece (born last week) today...they'll probably spend the day there...Marsh is all about her family...the kids get a lot of love out there...They had a work day yesterday at our house and usually the rest of the week, they spend maintaining the house/laundry and doing fun things...

I spoke too soon:)

2009-01-19T06:01:00.000-08:00

Yes...my last posting said everyone was better. Well, little did I know that sickness at our house was only taking a break...soon to return...Wed night last week, Jake didn't want to go to Puggles class at church...he never really wants to go, but after I shove him in and shut the door, I think he usually enjoys himself somewhat. So, I took him with me and left Ava...got home, and fever has been 104-104.5 since. He has not eaten since then. just started drinking again yesterday. I made him suffer it out until saturday...I called my good friend AWagg and she took a look at him since she was at urgent care (thank God she was there). Yep...throat looked like crap. He was the welcome recipient of a bicillin shot in his right leg. OMG....he is still running 103-104 today and is just now starting to put weight on that leg. He has done nothing but lay on the couch for almost a week. If any of you know Jacob, you know that is abnormal. Poor little guy...this morning said,,,mommy...I need you to stay home and take care of me...I'm sick...mememember???? I'm a bad mother...I came to work. We're planning our weekly visit to Dr. Ruff on Wednesday:)
Daddy should be home tonight...he always misses the good times at home:)...but I'm sure he'll get his fill tonight and the rest of the week...momma is taking a break!
Anyway, Jake is by no means out of the woods...his throat is still very swollen and he's kinda scarin me at night...a lot of snoring and drooling...tonsils are not touching anymore, but I keep checking with the flashlight. Those little airways are too fragile not to worry! So, say a little prayer for him and Ava that she can fight these germs again. And me...the last time I had strep throat (only time in my life), I thought i was gonna die. and now being pregnant!!! AAGGHHH!! I know I've been kissin on him, so hope my immune system is at its strongest!

Everyone's doing better:)

2009-01-12T09:47:00.000-08:00

Yes...after a very long week, I think the kids are back to somewhat healthy. Ava started with 104 fever last Tuesday. It didn't really break until Friday. We visited Dr. Ruff (our favorite). He spent almost an hour with Ave...he couldn't really find anything specific, but just didn't think she looked good. I had promised her no shots before the appt (I figured it was just a viral thing and she didn't really have any other symptoms). Well, I kept my promise, but the bad news was that he decided to draw blood instead...She had a major panic attack. However, when it came time to actually lay down and put on the tourniquet, she was very calm and didn't even whimper when they stuck her. I was so proud. She said she would rather have that done that a shot "any day". Her CBC was ok for the most part. She is a little iron deficient, so we're supplementing daily for 3 months. She actually took it really well. Besides a couple other minor issues, I think we're on the road to recovery. Jacob had said his ears and throat hurt on Tuesday too, so I got him in with Dr. Ruff with Ava. He and I both looked at Jake and had to wonder...Opposed to the hour he spent with Ava, it only took him about 30 seconds to determine that Jacob's illness was not too significant...we think it might have been "don't leave me out" pains more than anything. But Dr. Ruff remembered and had a fresh supply of Iron Man stickers just for Jake, so he got better pretty fast.
I had my routine check up this morning...wasn't really scheduled...I knew I needed one this week, so I just grabbed my OB record, weighed myself, and put myself in a room when I got here this morning...Dr. Hopf and I had a long visit...the OB part took about 5 minutes...the rest was office politics and chit chat....he's so personable....after a little patience and persistence, we were able to hear a little heartbeat (which is sometimes difficult at this point because baby is so small). We guessed it in the 160s...which is good. Everything seems fine and I've only gained one pound so far!!!! Knock on wood....I've never really gained with my pregnancies...I think the most I ever gained was with Ava and was around 15 lb. Hope this time isn't much different...I have a feeling it will be much harder to lose this time around. I'm definately not starving...can't believe I haven't gained 20 lb already. Guess this baby is taking it all in...must have a big appetite like its mama:)

Truly amazing!

2009-01-05T12:54:00.000-08:00

Is this just amazing or what??? I know it's hard to see...it's my 3-D ultrasound at 9 weeks...little webbed feet at bottom...2 legs, 2 arm buds, you can even kinda see the eye sockets... this little fella is only 2.2 cm long!!! Just unbelievable..

Happy Holidays...

2009-01-05T11:20:00.000-08:00

ok...I've been dreading this post...I hate trying to fit in 2 wks of events in one short post. I put a few pictures up but didn't scratch the surface of everything we did...
Christmas eve we went to my aunt Arlene and Paul Bean's house for my dad's side. We used to do gifts, etc., but have simplified to just the little ones. They opened presents and the rest of the evening was spent eating and talking with family...was quite nice...
Afterwards, we headed home to get our cookies and milk ready for santa...I put the kids to bed, but they were very reluctant for me to leave them...I was kinda surprised...figured they would jump right in bed and get to sleep so Santa could come...Ava said she was afraid the security system alarm would go off when he got into the house and the cops would come...I have no idea...you'd think the cops had been to our house a million times or something...
Christmas morning was spent, the 4 of us (and unborn baby Truelove), opening our gifts to each other. My husband I had an agreement this year, that we would not buy for each other (we always say that and only one of us keeps our word)...Well, the kids got him a really cool resin deer with big antlers...just for decor in his new office (will b downstairs). And, when I got my box ...from the kids....yeah right...It felt really heavy and they kept telling me it was from rural king. When I opened it, I found a bunch of metal tools...I was thinking...ok....what is this about...Then, there was the little box...the infamous little box...had a diamond cross pendant in it...beautiful...my husband has always had great taste in jewelery!
Then, my parents came over so we could unwrap the adult presents...it was fun...nice and relaxed...the kids' presents from Paps and grandma were packed for Michigan...they wanted to open theirs when my nephews opened theirs.
Then, off to brunch at my country grandma's...I made waffles this year...I love this brunch...always hits the spot!
We went home and took naps (well, I didn't...) and headed to memaws for Christmas with Shad's family...She had a meal and a lot of other stuff to eat...we opened presents and played with uncle Chase...
The day after Christmas we headed to Michigan to be with my brother and his family. Shad didn't go...he worked Friday so decided he'd skip this year...it was probably a good thing...A usual 5 hour trip took 8 hours due to the horrible ice storm up north. Me, Ava, Jake, Mom, and Dad, and a carload...I mean a huge carload of presents/luggage...went about 10 mph from Lafayette, IN to Michigan...the kids were great...I was about ready to puke.
In Michigan, we ate a nice big meal prepared by my brother and his wife, opened presents, swam in the hotel pool, lounged, etc...we also went to their Saturday evening service at church. We headed back to IN on Sunday.
I was off the whole next week, but didn't enjoy it much...just didn't feel good all week. Nothing specific...aches and pains, bad bad mood, etc. I feel bad but the kids still said they were glad mommy was home. I must say...I love being home with my kids, but it is definately necessary for me to work...to keep mine and their sanity.
This past weekend wasn't real exciting either...just hung around home...
Back to work today...I really thought coming back was gonna b tough, but it has been a good day...and mom is fixing us dinner tonight so it's even gonna get better!
I did have a little (actually really big) scare last night with the pregnancy...we did an early morning ultrasound today and everything looks great! In only 3 weeks, this little person has developed arms and legs (2 and 2!!!) and 2 eye sockets! Heart rate was fast this time (last time was on the low side) probably bcause it's mom was about to have an anxiety attack. She did a 3D ultrasound(there are major perks to working in ob office) just for fun and it is absolutely amazing already. So, pray that things remain healthy!

2009-01-05T10:47:00.001-08:00

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Almost time for a break...

2008-12-23T10:24:00.000-08:00

Yes...I have 3 more hours of work, then off till after new yrs...Yaaaa! I'll probably work harder at home though...
Just got my initial labwork results back...all looks good. Progesterone level is 19.6...I really thought it would b higher than that by the way I feel, but definately closer to where we want it than it was before. But, I have to keep taking the stupid supplements. Yuck. Was considering do another scan this week to recheck baby's heart rate (110 last week...probably just super early)...but decided, with my doctor of course..., that I didn't want to do a thousand scans...nothing would change anyway...so, we're gonna let nature take its course and hopefully everything will b just fine...Certainly feeling pregnant now, so kinda makes me feel better...but won't until we get that next ultrasound done and make sure everything is where it's supposed to be and functioning...I guess it's just my age and profession that makes me so nervous...I've seen how bad things can be...the more kids I have, the higher my anxiety level goes with pregnancy!

Christmas Cheer!!

2008-12-22T10:57:00.000-08:00

I actually took some pictures this last week...I'll try and put them on, but they never go on the way they're supposed to...here goes...

Jacob after his second successful "poo" in the toilet...Ava watching nearby (I know we are twisted and not right, but at this point, we will do anything for a successful "poo"

My little guy all tuckered out after a big day at home with mommy...I just can't resist these cute little sleepy pictures...He always says "I am not tired mommy"...and this is how I always find him...he always looks like he crashed mid-spiderman...

Ava tormenting her papa at Uncle C.Jay's house in Bloomington...these two are constantly giggling, wiggling, and getting in big trouble...and they are always in this same position...They play endless hours of riddly riddly ree, I spy my little eye, and tickle. Also, Ava has become quite intrigued with her bodily functions lately...papa just makes it worse...he'd laugh at anything that came out of her mouth...

Our family at Uncle C.Jay's (my moms' brother) in Bloomington. We had our first christmas celebration up there on Sunday...

Jacob winking at me for a picture with his new "gorilla mountain"...it is the best thing ever...I really think he played with it from around 2 pm until 9 pm last night...seriously...I highly recommend it for any little boys out there...and moms...

Ava Grace loving her new cozy critters playset...cutest thing I have ever seen...I got them at Toys to Treasure in Eville...little critters (puppies, kitties, etc) and their little house accessories...sooo cute...

A closer look...little armoire with hangers and clothes, high chair with little tiny bottle and plate with spoon, the little critter is lying on his back in the middle and one is sitting up with the paci in his mouth, play mat, crib (has a mobile...cute!)

My kids helping Great Grandma open her gift from us...we got her a matted picture of our family with an easel...10x10...she just loves the kids...

Papa and Jacob playing "tackle" on the floor...got kinda rowdy...

Jamie...

Updated pictures...

2008-12-18T05:36:00.000-08:00

Make a Smilebox slideshow

First ultrasound...feeling a little better??!!

2008-12-17T06:21:00.000-08:00

Well, I was scheduled for my first ultrasound today, to check viability...supposed to be at 1230, but when I got to work, everyone wanted to do it right away...including me! So, we did...with everyone waiting outside the door practically, I did it. Paula, the ultrasound tech, is so wonderful. She just kept saying..."yaaaa" "yaaaaa". We saw the little heartbeat, baby is only measuring 4mm, which confirms my dates...a little over 6 wks. So, I'll be due around August 10...my city grandma's birthday. So, more than likely, I'll have my 3rd baby in July too...3 July babies! We'll probably be renting the big water slide every year now!

I'm trying to figure out how to post my ultrasound so you can see the little heartbeat...most of you have seen it many times on your own, but for those who need a refresher...it really is a little miracle. You know how computer literate I am, so it may not happen!

Thanks for the nomination Susie!

2008-12-15T07:41:00.000-08:00

Yeah!!! I love winning awards. This must be my lucky week...we went to Mr. Gattis Sunday after church and I won jackpots on every game...now this!!! Anyway, now I have to nominate 5 bloggers for being the best! Also, my 5 addictions...Shawn can tell you 2 pretty easy...here goes:

I nominate:
1. Shawn Otto...for being the newest blogger and for the great act he puts on regarding how he is NOT addicted to blogging...Shawn...preachers can have addictions to blogging too:) LOL...I always have to give him a hard time...
2. Jamie Knepp...her postings are always hilarious. Reminds me a lot of my life...and my kids...by the way, Jamie...Fish told me this morning that Emma told him that "Jamie Toolove is having a baby"...cute.
3. Kelly Merold...Meeska, Mooska, and Mickey Mouse...I just love that! I always smile when I see that posting title...she hasn't updated for 2 months though...Kelly...I hope this prompts an updated posting...LOL
4. Leah Robinson...what a great idea...virtual yardsale! U R just ingenious...and great pictures too!
5. Mandy Ash...I always enjoy looking at your creations...u definately are the best blog designer I know!

My 5 addictions:
1. Dr Phil
2. Oprah
3. The Doctors
(I know...I'm a tv/dvr junkie)
4. bargain shopping, shopping in general...I will go to all lengths to get a bargain...love the mall and love yardsales!
5. sleeping with my kids...I know my husband would not agree at all, but I just don't want to waste one moment. I need to clarify...I don't let them sleep with me all the time, but I do sometimes. Our deal is that if they go to bed when they r told, without problems, then they will get "slumber parties" with mom. If going to their own bed becomes a problem, then the slumber parties will b over.

Here are the rules for nominating...
1. You have to pass it on to 5 other fabulous bloggers in a post.
2. You have to list 5 of your fabulous addictions in the post.
3. You must copy and paste the rules and the instructions below in the post.Instructions: On your post of receiving this award, make sure you include the person that gave you the award and link it back to them.

whew!!

2008-12-11T11:11:00.000-08:00

I just made the lilypie ticker for pregnancy .... after much deliberation....I just hate talking about it yet, not knowing for sure that everything will b ok. BUT....when I saw it come up and it said only 242 more days....WOW...that seems like forever! Sorry for all who visit my blog...this will probably seem like a really really long pregnancy for you!

to make you laugh...

2008-12-11T10:14:00.000-08:00

Well, I guess our secret is out---once everything is a little more stable, I'll keep you a little more updated...until then, I'm just gonna lay back and pray everything is ok.
Haven't had a funny Jake story for a while...but last night was the kicker. I was on the living room floor wrapping gifts for christmas...wrapping supplies everywhere. I mean the whole rug was covered. I do not enjoy wrapping when I'm rushed, so I was in a bad mood and griping at everybody. My poor kids were just doing everything they could to please me. Right in the middle of wrapping a bigger gift, Jake says "I gotta go potty"...always at the most inopportune times. So, being the hormonal mother I am, I said "just go in there...you're big enough to do it by yourself this time"...I was just being lazy and didn't want to go. So, he smiled and off he went to be a big boy. A few minutes later, he calmly said.."mommy....will you come in here" ...he was talking so nicely and gentle...Again, I was so irritable (you can ask my Aunt Sue...I'm sure she could tell from earlier in the night that I was on edge a little), I said "Ava...go in there and see what he wants". Sooo....she went in, all smiles...eager to help....and very calmly walked back to tell me that "Jake fell in the toilet". Well, I'd heard that story before and it was always a big lie just to get me in the bathroom. So, I said "whatever". She looked at me intently and said "no mom. He is in the toilet. His leg is stuck in the toilet. He cannot get out. Like, his knee is in the water.". It was really funny to hear her get so serious. It was even funnier that Jake was just sitting in the toilet waiting for help to come. It was like he was just used to being in these perdicaments (sp?). So, I huffed and stomped and went in the bathroom yelling at him (and I feel really bad about it) because I figured he did it on purpose to be funny. There was water (or pee...not sure) all over the floor and his left leg was straight in the toilet, while the other was wrapped around the seat. His left leg was straight...like he was standing in the toilet. What's worse is that his foot was suctioned up in the hole. So, he broke down in disappointment in himself. He was sobbing it was so sad. He said "mommy I cannot help it. I fell in and I was trying to do it all by myself like you wanted". OMG...I felt like an abusive mother. So, I was finally able to de-suction his foot and rescue him from the toilet. I cleaned up the mess and his leg and then apologized to him and asked him to forgive me. Then, he said mommy you're beautfiul (his new favorite thing to say). Ava just stood and watched. She was pretty proud of herself for defending her brother. She kept saying "mom...I saw it for real. He fell in. He really didn't mean to." The wrath of mommy had to come to a stop! So, I'm trying to b calmer and more rational, but lately it's been a fine line. Just ask my poor husband.

new book

2008-12-10T06:54:00.000-08:00

Well, I've had my kindle for a few weeks now...I really really really love it. I'm reading a book now...The five love languages for children...I had heard of (and I think read) the couples version, but thought this might be interesting...It is sooooo informative...it tells you how to reach the heart of your kids...mostly with discipline...How to discipline lovingly and still effectively. It has really opened my eyes so far...I've got typed in notes in about every margin...that's why I love the kindle so much. I can keep this forever on a memory card and always refer back to my notes... I'm getting ready to download bringing up boys (I've read already, but need it daily) and Mistaken Identity (the story of the car accident where the 2 high school girls were mistaken for each other...one was dead and the other was critical...can't wait to read it...Oprah had them on her show and I was just mesmerized by the story.

Rain, rain, rain

2008-12-09T07:37:00.000-08:00

Isn't this weather weird! It is just pouring outside. Guess should b glad it's not freezing, but it would b kind of exciting if it was!
I'm getting ready to order our pictures from Abby...like I said before, they were pretty painful, so I'm grateful for editors! Overall, I think they turned out pretty good.
Not much going on here...feeling pretty good, which is always a blessing! Got some things going on, so if you get a chance, say a prayer...I've learned a whole new perspective on life in the last couple months...maybe that is why these things are happening to me:) I'm not one to get too detailed on this blog...just because I want to keep it strictly to fun conversation...nothing that reveals any family/medical/etc. issues that need to be kept within the family and close friends...so, I won't go into it any further...just say a prayer if you think about it...thx

good morning...

2008-12-08T09:35:00.000-08:00

What a busy weekend...it never fails...I always have great plans to b home, relax, watch a cmas movie, etc. Then, we get wild ideas and the whole weekend is gone in a flash. We had fun this weekend, but man, I'm exhausted.

On Friday, Jacob, Ava, and I (and Trista part of the day) were shopping from 9am till 530 ish. What a day! Jacob was a real trooper. We had 4 jubilee presents to get for church, plus 2 angel tree kids (for Shad's work...we buy all their gifts, not just one each). We were in Loogootee and Washington, but got everything done I think. Jacob is just grasping that we buy gifts for other people and not just ourselves. Ava is all about buying for everyone else. We have to beg her to buy for herself instead of everyone else. Baby Emily is her greatest mission in life right now. She would give everything for that precious little baby! Every time we go somewhere (including the thrift...sorry Mandy), she immediately goes to baby items to buy for baby Emily.

Saturday morning was our visit with Santa...the "real" santa couldn't come, so a sub was there. Jacob couldn't believe he knew his name without mommy telling him. Ava...well, she wasn't falling for it. She didn't get too close and when we left, she said..."Mom...i hate to tell you, but that wasn't Santa...it was Denny" (Brunson). Hmmmm....I told her it was too slick for the real santa...hope she doesn't realize that sleighs are for slick weather! Jake fell hard...he told Santa everything he wanted and jumped right up on his lap for a squeeze. Thanks Mel and Denny...

Then, it was on to Miss Cmas Mouse at the courthouse...Tera, I, and all the kids have kinda made a tradition of going to this...we always pose for a group pic and Tera thought she was getting out of it this yr, but she was wrong. I had a fit. We were not breaking tradition...so we got our pics and they were one of the best ones yet...thanks Tera... It's always a chaotic mess with all the kids and cookie decorating, and letters to santa, etc. , but the kids had a ball. Then, to Gatti's for a fun lunch (ended up being a bday lunch for me from Tera...thanks again) and to our surprise, ended up in a play date for Ava and Braylee that afternoon. Mom and I made a last minute trip to Eville and finished up our shopping.

Sunday was crazy...almost late for church, sunday school, lunch, then small groups at our house. It was a great time, but my husband said that next time, we're ordering pizza. I always enjoy getting everything ready and hosting, but for some reason, always overdo it and stress out a bit. Must be the Stoll in me:)

Hey...small group....does everyone like chicken fajitas? I'm thinking about making that for Sunday night...will your kids eat that (maybe minus the peppers and onions?)...I may go ahead and make something extra for them....for some reason, mac n cheese and hot dogs never get old! Let me know if anyone has severe heartburn or any other problems...Greta...I can tone yours down...and Jen...I think you'd b the 2 high risk for heartburn:) Won't make them too spicy...promise!

I'm back!

2008-12-03T06:39:00.000-08:00

I cannot guarantee that I'll get all the missed events in this one post...but, I'll try...

Jacob received all his potty training toys...in about 2 days...was pottying correctly for approx. 72 hours with 1-2 accidents! Yaaa! Well, guess what...the surprises stopped and so did he! So, now his daddy has made the executive decision to take his surprises away one by one with every accident. Ava said...make sure you take the ones he really really loves! She's catching on fast! Anyway, doesn't seem to b phasing him much....maybe need to go back to very small surprises again to lift the morale/get into a habit of knowing when to run to bathroom??? Seems if we keep reminding him...every 30 minutes...he makes it. But, if we let up for 5 minutes, he'll get busy doing something and forget about it...don't know if he is being lazy or really just ignores the fact that he is peeing down his leg! AAAGGGHHH!

Took family pictures with Abby on Saturday before Tgiving. It was very painful to say the least. Trying to get everyone to remain fully dressed, in place, sitting still, and smiling was impossible. We wanted to try and do pics at our house to personalize it a bit. Abby posted them this morning...she is amazing...she was able, amazingly, to get some good shots...or maybe she just really edited well!

We went shopping on Black Friday...as usual....i always try to go and take a group. This year, I had a new group, with the exception of B. Ash...she went last yr too...We left at 430 am and got home around 630. Jodi Knepp, Darla Knepp (Craig), her daughter Megan, Britt, and me. Quite a group. We went to a thousand different stores. By 9 or 10 am, we could not see out of any window of the tahoe. It was pretty hilarious. We had 5 christmas trees in the back...plus all the other stuff. I know I was beat...I can't imagine having shopped any longer, but I wouldn't have complained if we had hit a few more stores. Honestly, though...I have no idea where we would have put anymore...we were about ready to buy some rope and start strapping to the luggage rack on top. No one got mugged anywhere, but I thought I was gonna have to go postal at Walmart...on the lady who kept hitting my cart. Sorry...but at 5am, you just don't want to rub me the wrong way. Oh well, no drama incurred.

Back to work this week. I was off from Wed. till Tues. and now am fighting the work demands. I guess I'm spoiled...I didn't get the work gene from either of my parents. I think I fake it pretty well though. I try not to mope around or b lazy, but sometimes it just is inevitable. Was sickly over the weekend (so was mom) and haven't fully recovered. Seems like since I had Jacob, I just don't recover very fast.

I wanted to post some pics, but found that my data cable is missing. So, I'll try to find it and post some later...

ideas???

2008-12-02T09:28:00.000-08:00

Ya...ya...ya...I know. I still don't have the energy or time to post, but will...I promise! I am hosting our small groups Sunday night (church group)...we have 8 adults and 8 kids (that eat...baby Brent comes too, but is too small to complain!)...any ideas on dinner???

noncompliant...

2008-11-25T10:24:00.000-08:00

Sorry I haven't posted for a while...I'm sure I'll b hearing about it from some of my diligent followers (and uncles!! You know who u r). The truth is that I am completely stressed with the potty training and it is taking every ounce of emotion I have to b persistent. I'll make it...He's trying (I think)...and I keep telling him that I will never give up on him (sounds funny saying that to a 3 yr old), but I'm all about raising self esteem no matter the age. Anyway, I will post more later...I'm off now till Tuesday of next week...and I have a lot of spider man goodies to give away to the lucky pottier!!

Progress??

2008-11-20T06:51:00.000-08:00

Well, thanks to some church friends' advice, I think we have possibly made a little progress with potty training?? S G told me to try and put him backward on the potty...worked for her little guy who didn't train until 3 1/2 or 4. So, I put him on, he was facing the bowl, we put some interesting stuff on the bowl so he could b entertained while sitting there...he actually sit there for a couple minutes and wasn't thinking about peeing...One of our theories is that he was under too much pressure to "make it go". So, at least he is sitting there, giving it a chance... One of these times it's gonna happen. Ava and I always leave the room, turn on the water, talk about pottying, and wait, and wait. He always says...I don't have to pee...I promise I won't pee in my diaper...then 5 minutes later, he pees in his diaper. But a little progress goes a long way. I think we're gonna try the "shoot the floating mean guys" approach again. If you know Jacob, you know he is infatuated with mean guys (good or bad?). So, I think if we make it into an assassination of some sort (not violent of course), he may think it's fun! We'll c...pretty desperate for now. Planning to b home fri, sat, sun this weekend, so will try again. This will be 3-5 day trial # 3 for me. It's just not as easy as you might think if you're not in the situation. I used to think parents were inadequate...not spending enough time, not patient...not the 100% best parent like I was...if their kid didn't potty train by 2. Well...believe me...I have changed my mind...I have found out though, that most of my friends who have little boys, have had the same problem...so I'm not crazy or stupid:)

By the way...Jacob told me I was beautiful last night...sniff sniff

I give up...

2008-11-18T08:10:00.000-08:00

Ok, I'm up for any suggestions...big or small...easy or complicated...stupid or common sense...
My little Jacob is 3 and 1/2 and refuses to use the potty. I've never yelled at him...always encouraged every effort he has given. I even tell him how wonderful he is when he tells me he pees in his diaper. At least he's acknowledging it is happening??? He tried one time by himself and was going to b so proud, but fell in and out of the toilet...pretty traumatic and embarrasing...and probably hurt. There has got to b a way to train him...I know he's smart enough. I've tried staying home and doing the underwear only thing over a 3-4 day span...no improvement. Babysitter tried for weeks at a time...I know how to train a toddler and so does she...Ava trained in 24 hours and babysitter's boy trained in 2 days...I know we're not stupid. We've tried "shooting the gun at the cheerios", "aiming at the fishies", etc, etc. Have all the spider man accessories, have sit, have stood, etc. Have tried to pee off the porch, outside, with daddy, etc. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

I love my little sister...I mean brother!

2008-11-18T06:38:00.001-08:00

Ava loves her little brother dearly. But deep in her heart, she would love to have a baby sister to dress up, play dolls with, etc. Well, Jacob caught the raw end of that deal the other night. She put on a matching nightgown and told him he was a girl, despite what we have always told him. Yes, my 5 yr old is trying to brainwash my 3 yr old. He did really look cute in the dress...He will hate me for this later, but it was just so darn cute! He ended up sleeping in the gown, so he must not have despised it too bad!

The woo woo's are coming to take us to jail!!

2008-11-17T10:25:00.000-08:00

You guessed it! This posting is dedicated to Sue and Darla...I hope you can laugh till you cry:)

Jacob got to experience deer spotting for the first time this weekend. He was partnered with his father and half-brother (not really, but close friend for sure), Nathan Hart. While the girls (me and Ave) were spending some female time at home, the guys were being chased by game-wardens. Yes...they got pulled over while spotting. Jacob was out of his carseat so he could "see the deer", but evidently they were just coasting...not really on a public road...anyway, the game wardens were on each side and made them get out. They asked if there were any guns and Shad said no...he may seem hard-core, but he does follow the laws. Anyway, as they were getting out, Nathan was helping little Jake and Jake yelled..."hold on...I have to get my gun!" MMMMM...Jacob, we just told them we didn't have any guns! Little Jakie reached for his gun and pulled out a pink water pistol. I guess the game wardens thought it was pretty funny. They still got patted down, so now Jacob will probably be searching us from head to toe. I'm sure he thought the whole experience was pretty cool. I'm so proud...at least I can say that in the midst of a bad experience, his father did teach him that it is important to obey the law. Good Job!

Well, we did it....

2008-11-13T08:03:00.000-08:00

Yep...we started the bedtime rules last night...at least, I started the rules. The kids did not and neither did their dad! Jacob was having a bad night anyway...he hates puggles, but his mean mom pushes him in the door and leaves. I'm forcing him to learn about Jesus, by gosh! Then, he tried to slice me with his sword when we got home, so he got in big trouble and lost the sword for a week (or infinity...haven't decided). Then, had to go to his bed and go to sleep due to the new rules. Ava did fine, except a little whining about her tooth hurting (hadn't hurt all night...until time to lay down). Then, they both fell asleep till morning (after we listened to Jake scream, kick, and cry for approx. 30 min.).
We have our "holiday party" tomorrow night at Scott's house (Dr. Beckman). I'm sure it will b a great time. We had a pool party there this summer and was a blast. No kids allowed tomorrow night...
Hope tonight is a little easier rolling at bedtime. I'm not backing down! I really enjoyed watching Oprah and Dr. Phil last night all by myself in my bed.

Parenting 101

2008-11-12T07:02:00.000-08:00

Well, another potential ER trip last night....you guessed it...Spiderman tried to climb up on the bar last night and smacked his face (not sure what part b/c there was blood everywhere) on his way to the floor. Ended up, I think, as just a busted lip...and a lot of drama. Then, when bedtime came around, he was "scared of the mean things outside". He cried and cried. When I made him lay down, he kicked and threw himself...then he had to get in trouble, which is so heartbreaking when they're going to bed. We had a long talk and I think he ended up having sweet dreams.
I made a serious decision last night...through all the bedtime drama (sister included) that I am gonna "put my mommy pants on" (as dr. phil says) and enforce bedtime rules. My kids are so fatigued...I think it is starting to affect their attitudes, etc. After watching Dr. Phil last night on DVR, I decided I am getting to the "being their friend" point when I'm supposed to be the mommy, the enforcer, the authority. It's a big struggle for me...constantly, but I'm gonna give it my best shot. From now on, bedtime is bedtime and if you wanna cry about it, that is fine, but you'll do it in your bed at 8:30! I hope they don't hate me in the end...Dr. Phil says too bad...they can't hate you, b/c they have to depend on you for everything. I really don't live my life by Dr. Phil, but I do respect a lot of his parenting lessons.
Ava and I had a girls night out and went to see Madagascar II...We picked up a few strays along the way (just kidding guys)...Brittany, Carmen, Trevor, Morgan, and Trista...it was quite a group. The girls giggled the whole way there and back. The little girls thought it would b cool to sit in the front row by themselves, but my little princess ended up in my seat...we had a little drama, but nothing major...sometimes I wonder if we're starting puberty already!

My pirate flew into the speaker!!!

2008-11-11T08:51:00.000-08:00

There is never a dull, unexciting moment at our house...for sure. Last night, we basically, just played, visited my mom and dad, goofed off, etc. We've had some issues with our 5yr old princess...a little bit of sassiness has come her way. I've been talking nonstop to her about respect, minding our space and others' space, not interrupting when adults talk, not pestering our brother just to make him cry...etc. Anyway, last night was the end of the rope for me. I cannot even remember exactly what was said or done, but I do remember that some authority was shown by her mother! The whole way home from my parents' house, I was told that I hurt her feelings, and other guilt trips. So, we had a nice long talk and everyone loved everyone in the end, but it took a good hour to get through that drama.
Then, when we got home, Jacob was playing pirates...I was in the kitchen (talking to Ava still) and we heard a crash, Jacob crying, and knew some tragedy had occured in the living room. Me and Ava looked at each other and ran to his rescue...he was crying so hard and trying to tell me what had happened...it was so cute, but I couldn't figure out what he was saying...sounded really bad. Come to find out, he said, "my pirate...my pirate...he, he, he flew right into that speaker mom...he just flew in and he's never (sob, sob) coming out!!!!". My arm was way too big to fit in the tiny hole of the sub-woofer (not a speaker, my hubby informed me), so my brave little girl stuck her tiny little arm all the way in...we turned, propped, shook, etc. She couldn't feel anything...Jake continued to sob in worry...so, we called daddy who was deer shining...he came home, got out the drill, took the sub-woofer apart, and SAVED THE PIRATE!!! Jacob really thinks his dad is a hero now. Then, off to bed we went...

Cherish every moment...

2008-11-10T07:20:00.000-08:00

What a weekend! I tell ya...I believe, more than ever, that we have to be ready to go at every millisecond! With J.M.'s passing and now a very dear physician...what tragedies. I'm grateful, however, that no suffering was involved. Just goes to show that God is in control...no doctor can predict our life sustainance (?sp). We can go to our doctors for help and advice (and please keep doing so, so I can keep my job), but ultimately, we have to rely, solely, on Him. Jasper is pretty devastated, as is Washington and surrounding communities. Dr. D. was a hard-working, compassionate, christian man who never said a foul word to anyone (that I know of). I can think of many instances where I have called his office to ask advice about a heart patient of mine. Usually, you get the nurse, but when I called, he always got on the phone and talked until I was done. Never acted bothered or put out. That's pretty remarkable, comparatively speaking (most docs don't have time). Anyway, please keep Beth, Adam, and the family in your prayers...also the office staff, Dr. L., Josh, etc. I'm sure there is some pretty serious grieving going on over there.

Oprah's Favorite New Gadget

2008-11-05T06:45:00.000-08:00

Yes... I know...Shawn (preacher Shawn) has already harassed me about loving Oprah and Dr. Phil...anyway, did anyone see her episode regarding her favorite new gadget? It's called the Kindle. It's an electronic reading device. It's flatter than a book, has a no-glare screen, and you can shop for books from the device with no computer involvement. It has a cell phone battery so no computer or network is required. When you download a book, magazine, newspaper, blog, etc. it arrives to your Kindle within one minute. I wish they would have had these when I was in college...my back wouldn't be in the shape it is in now! Oh well...I couldn't resist. I bought one. It should be here in about 2 weeks. I cannot wait. I love to read, but don't because I don't want to mess with dragging stuff to work and back every day. And, when I start a book, it seems like I always lose my page, lose the book, etc. Now, I won't have to worry about it. Check it out on Oprah.com. Actually it would be easier to look at Amazon.com and search Kindle.

In other news...this week....well, for the most part, I cannot complain. We are truly blessed to have such wonderful children and a wonderful family. I cannot explain how comforting it is to have such loving, christian friends and family to support you when you need it most. I guess this week has just been one to remember for our family...anyone who knows me will know what I'm talking about. Anyway, treasure your friendships, treasure your family, and treasure your babies. Life goes on and you have to make the most of every minute. I've tried really hard this past year to live for the day and not for tomorrow. If there is work to be done, but I'm home with my children, we may very likely ignore the work and ride the golfcart all day...or go to the park...or visit friends, etc. I've learned that the material things, work, chores, etc. will be there tomorrow, but we may not be.

Happy Halloween!

2008-11-03T11:56:00.000-08:00

Hi everyone...we had a really good weekend. This year, for halloween, we started a new tradition. We went trick or treating on Thursday night and on Friday, had our own halloween party at home. We all wore our halloween shirts, put up decorations, played games, had a nice meal, and got to see all our trick or treaters! It really was fun. I think the kids enjoyed Friday night way more than trick or treating! Friday afternoon, while we were in town, we were invaded with tarantulas. Here is a picture of what they did to our kitchen!

Saturday was a busy day...we spent about an hour at the library, went to Knepps to eat with my family from Boonville, then went back to town to hit walmart...the kids and I picked out our presents for operation christmas child. Ava had a ball...Jake thinks he should get all the presents! He's still trying to con me into giving him the motorcycle for his shoe box! After that, we went home for naps and headed to Jasper later that evening for supper. Ava invited herself over to grandmas to spend the night, so Jake flew solo with mom and dad.

Sunday, we celebrated my dad's 60th birthday. We always have a birthday bash for him. I fixed Sunday lunch and we decorated the house...made a great cake with a rainbow on it...Ava did most of it herself. We always sing happy birthday, blow out candles, and open presents. I really think dad enjoys it more than the kids! Here is dad blowing out his candles...

Sunday night was fun too. We had small groups at Matt and Jessica Gingerich's. Everyone attended...we haven't all met as a group for a month or so due to other activities...so it was nice to come together again.

And today, it's Monday...I shouldn't whine. I'm having a good day. I love my co-workers and I am not overworked. I don't work in the cold or hot and I don't have to sweat to get my work done. I have it pretty good.

Dr. Ruff to the rescue!!

2008-10-30T12:40:00.000-07:00

I just called Jasper Pediatrics, aka Dr. Ruff, for my second update today...he insisted that I call this morning and this afternoon with an update...he had a million questions...Anyway, I confessed that I took her out today...he said it probably did her good to get some air and do something besides lay around...that's why I like him...he doesn't tell you your a bad mother for this, for stopping breastfeeding, for giving a pacifier, etc. He wants her to continue her current treatmens...push fluids, activity as tolerated, and he called in an oral antibiotic as well as culturelle (a normal bacteria in the gut that is sometimes depleted with antibiotic use...antibiotic kills good bacteria as well as the bad and sometimes causes upset stomach). I have to call AGAIN tomorrow morning, even though he is out on Friday...Dr. Bies will address us tomorrow. It's fine to do whatever she is tolerating. So, I guess we can trick or treat tonight if she is feeling ok. She still hasn't peed today, but has some energy so must not be too awfully dry. However, kids usually go down fast, so I'm trying to push fluids as best as I can.
I really hope all Ava's friends don't get sick...she isn't contagious today, because of her Rocephin yesterday...we still don't know if it is viral, bacterial, or nothing. She is currently cutting her back molars and a front bottom tooth. I still think this has something to do with it, but I'm just the mom...until tomorrow...

Feeling better? Or worse??

2008-10-30T12:07:00.000-07:00

We had a pretty good night...fever only got to 103.4! Yeah! I know, but when you have 104-105 for 4-5 days, 103 looks pretty great!
Ava slept pretty good...except for the hour or so we fought with the high fever. When your fever gets that high, every bone, muscle, and blood vessel hurts. She just wimpers like a little puppy when she gets like that. Poor little baby.
She woke about 9am and only had temp around 98-99...said her throat was better, felt good, etc. She has really been lonesome for her friends and becoming quite stir crazy being in our house all week, so she begged to go trick or treating to a couple places....and...."please oh please can Trista go with us...please mom....please mom....". So, mom broke and we went trick or treating ... weren't gone much over an hour...didn't want to overdo it, because we certainly are not out of the woods yet...Here are our little trick or treaters...
Dorothy, Brody (posing as Brody), Batman, and Ballerina Ava...They were all pretty cute...Jake had Ava's leggings on under his costume (I know...Batman was a real stud with girl leggings on) and Ava just kept laughing, saying, mom...his little butt...it's just so little! I'm afraid she is right. Jake's costume fit him to a tee. He truly is Batman...from the heart...
After trick or treating at my dad's...and at the hospital (mom, Shirley Yoder, Darla Knepp, and Linda Troutman), Ava was still hanging on...felt good...wanted a pop...still hasn't peed today, but is trying to drink...they wanted to go to McDonalds, but I knew Ave wouldn't eat and I really didn't want them touching all those disgusting play things at McDonalds playland...so we hit the drive thru and headed home. Of course the girls wanted to play...I had to evaluate the illness before I made a decision. Ava's temp was still less than 100, and she had been pretty active all morning...so we called Jennifer and asked if Trista could stay for a while.
In the meantime, I decided we would do something fun, that we could do sitting down....I didn't want them running and getting worn out...so we made bread dough ornaments...I got a new book with "kid concoctions"...the recipe was in there. Thanks to our Nanny Sue, we were able to make the dough...we had to borrow glue from her...She always saves the day! Here are some pics to show you how it went...

We tore up bread and added white glue and food coloring...it was nasty, but the kids loved it...Jake decided to eat his bread crumbs instead of making dough...whatever floats your boat...I guess. Here are our results...bread dough caterpillars!

Illness hits the Trueloves

2008-10-29T12:11:00.000-07:00

Well, all I can say is that it's a real good thing that I work with a couple really nice, compassionate, christian men...I have only worked one day this week and have no plans to return until Monday...
Over the weekend, Ava and Jacob started with a small cold...which over time has escalated into a tragic illness. We went to Dr. Ruff on Monday and saw the NP, Yvonne. I try to never treat my own children...just a preference of mine...anyway, Jacob was diagnosed with sinusitis and was put on antibiotic for 10 days. Ava was diagnosed with something...never did get a real good answer from the NP...said her throat looked like strep and her lungs were diminished...put her on zithromax for 4 days. We went home and figured all would be well the next morning, as it usually is when we get these sicknesses.
Jacob never did slow down...kept going...a little grouchy at times, but sleeping, eating, taking his medicine...probably on the road to recovery. Ava on the other hand, is headed for the hospital if she doesnt do some serious improving overnight.
Her and I went back today and saw Dr. Ruff, himself. I am 100% confident he can cure anything my kids would ever get...Ava has lost a pound in 2 days, is totally dehydrated, and continues with a persistent fever of over 104...has only come down to 102 in 4 days...Dr. Ruff gave her a thorough exam and talked to her a little bit...he always has a way of getting right to her little heart...he calls her A G...he has called her that since the day he saw her in the hospital (when she was born)...he can always melt her heart. Ava received 2 injections of Rocephin...a powerful antibiotic that burns like fire. He said that if she does not SIGNIFICANTLY improve by 8 am Thursday that he will do extensive work up and probably admit her. I think he is thinking a possible pneumonia...strep...not sure, but he is a little concerned...as am I.
Right now, she is on the couch...cannot walk from the injection (Ave has always been a little dramatic, but she does really appear to be in pain). Her fever is currently 103.2 after ibuprofen. She has peed once since yesterday afternoon and is still without food or drink...she just can't tolerate anything.
Say a little prayer for my little munchkins...I hope we all get better overnight. And I am so grateful for a wonderful bunch of doctors to take care of my babies and their mom. Dr. Hopf and Beckman (who I work with) are not a bit upset that I've missed work. They are genuine guys...that's why I chose to go work with them.

Not much going on...

2008-10-28T07:55:00.000-07:00

Our last week has been a busy one...but really not much going on...does that make sense? We've started the baby rage...this week I had 2 of my best friends out...I'm starting to make dinners and freezing them so I can keep up with the next birth...I think Brooke T. is next...anyway, I really enjoy helping out in any way I can. Brody got to come over last Friday and play a little...if that's what you call it...he was pretty tuckered out from his new baby...

He was asleep on our couch in the first 2 minutes he was sitting there...pretty funny. Jake was still talking to him but he was sleeping...didn't hear much of what he had to say...

I did some serious christmas shopping last week with my mom...I'm over half way done...I always want to be done and wrapped by Dec. 1. Really helps to enjoy the holidays...with kids, I don't want to miss a minute with all the drama...so I'm well on my way this year!

We spent an exciting night last Wednesday after cubbies/puggles...when we got home, the kids went wild with their father. I'm not kidding...I thought someone was going to be hospitalized. Here are some pictures to prove my point...

Now, this week's drama...Ava has what we thought was strep throat and now is turning into an early pneumonia...to top it off, she cannot get her antibiotic down...she's just too gaggy and throws it up...she really is being a trooper....keeps trying to take it for me...knowing she will puke relentlessly every time. Her fever has been approx. 104.5 for 3 days and nights now. I just got word this morning that Jacob is throwing up now. He's on antibiotic for a raging sinus infection. He thinks it is really cool when he sneezes...of course you can imagine why he thinks that is cool...yes...snot goes everywhere...I hope none of my friends' kids get what we have...I think we exposed quite a few this weekend...sorry:(

IT'S A BOY!

2008-10-21T10:19:00.000-07:00

IT'S A BOY!! 6 LB, 12 OZ, 20 INCHES LONG...DIDN'T GET TO GO SEE THEM AT LUNCH...WILL SNAP A PHOTO LATER...CONGRATULATIONS JEN AND BRAD!!

Our trip to Michigan...

2008-10-21T08:49:00.000-07:00

Make a Smilebox scrapbook

Toothless 2008

2008-10-21T05:39:00.000-07:00

Hi all...a lot of events have taken place since my last entry. I will catch up as time allows. Most importantly, however, Ava Grace lost her first tooth yesterday. It has been hanging there for 3 weeks. Her new tooth is already through the skin behind the hole (used to be behind the other tooth...she had 2 teeth in the same spot!!). It fell out while she was munching on a fruit snack on the way to preschool. Her best friend, Trista, was with her at this monumental time...Jennifer was driving. I bet it was a big drama. The bad news is that she lost her tooth in the midst of all the excitement...it is on our floor somewhere. I assured her that the tooth fairy only cares that she lost the tooth...that she does not require the tooth to be under the pillow...so we left the tooth fairy a note that explained what happened. I'm sure the tooth fairy left her something very exciting!!

Next on the exciting list is that Jen is having her baby today! C section at 1030...I'll try to run over at noon and snap a few pictures...if mom and baby are up to it...and give me consent of course!

Tag...you're it!

2008-10-07T10:58:00.000-07:00

OK....Susie G. just tagged me...it's a new "game" we're playin on the blogs...Now I have to list 6 random facts about myself / my family...here goes...

1. I have been with my husband since we were age 15...had our minor break-ups, but for the most part, were together...However, in all that time dating, we never went to high school prom together...but always ended up together at post prom...go figure.
2. My dream job...I know this is stupid...for me anyway...I want to be a cosmetologist...I love to cut and style other people's hair...wouldn't want to color or highlight...just cut and style...Need any help Amber Jo? (I also thought about being a cashier at walmart so I can use the scanner thing...or being a receptionist for a successful, rich business man...president of a bank or something...)
3. I love to shop....shop, shop, shop, shop...I could shop every day, all day...I could probably skip sleep and food to shop...but I have to work so I can make money so I can shop, shop, shop, shop...I look for bargains most of the time, but sometimes splurge...I know that is awful and materialistic of me..sorry
4. I only got one spanking in my entire life (maybe that is what's wrong with me)...it wasn't even my fault...My brother was dancing on the kitchen table and when dad came up from downstairs to see what all the racket was about, Jasen told him that I was dancing on the table...I remember exactly where I got my spanking...upstairs in the dining room...also remember where I went to pout after my spanking...sit down beside a big orange (I may b wrong on the color) chair / against the wall/ in the basement...man!
5. I would love to scrapbook...it's kind of a secret passion, but do not have the time to get started...I could make time, but don't want to...I also am very bad about organizing and taking pictures...kind of a necessity with a scrapbook. I would like to make each of my kids a scrap book before they get married...maybe I'll do that when I retire...age 45 I hope...
6. It was nearly impossible to think of 6 random facts...now I'm done...on to the next project...
I guess I have to tag 6 people now...ok...
*************Shannon S., Abbie T., Abby K., Jessica G., Chelsa K., and Shawna M...
TAG...YOU ARE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2008-10-02T05:05:00.000-07:00

Last night, we celebrated Shad's 34th birthday after we got home from awana...Me and the kids went to walmart and they got to pick out anything they wanted for daddy's present. I did not help them at all. We ended up in the hunting section and bought doe pee, no-scent spray and deodorant (which is $10!!!!). Then, we proceeded to the toys where Jacob thought daddy would like the $20 transformer...After much deliberation, we ended up with a resin buck deer for daddy's desk at work. We also bought for Maffew Hot (Matthew Hart in Jake language)...his birthday is the 1st too. Ava wrapped everything herself and we presented daddy with his gift at home last night...I got him a cake and he blew out the candles while we sang happy birthday. He also got cards from my parents, Aunt Sue, Bert & Barbara, and Messmer (yes...the politicians know your bdays...scary)...We never could catch Matt at home...went up there twice and finally gave up...we'll try again tonight. Here are some pics from our celebration...

When we got home from church, I noticed a pile of wet clothes outside the door...my husband was a rescue hero while we were gone...Our dog, Sam, has seizures occasionally and while swimming in our pond last night, started to seize...my husband looked out to the pond and all he could see were Sam's hind legs sticking out of the water...so, being the brave guy he is...he jumped in full force and saved our seizing dog...said the water was ice cold and the dog weighs in about 100 #...probably close to 120-130# wet and seizing...of course the cell phone was hooked to the belt, so it is ruined too. But, the important thing is that Sam is alive and well. The dog has over 9 lives...if any of you know him, you know he has overcome many battles in his life...hit by a car, has been lost several times but always found his way home...

Getting ready for the home tour on Sunday...Everyone is so reluctant to do home tours because of what people will say about their home...you know...I really don't care what people think about my home...or if they don't like my decor...or if they think my kids' toys are out of place...etc... That is why it is MY home and not theirs...I didn't build this home for everyone else to be happy...I'm all about curb appeal, but the rest is just juvenile, in my opinion...I hope you all can come out and support the BR seniors...the class trip is so valuable...I hope this will help so they can all participate. If anyone needs tickets, call me or email me...my cousin, Brittany, is selling and I would love to provide her a little extra support...

Our Awana Fieldtrip, 2008

2008-09-30T08:19:00.001-07:00

2008-09-25T12:58:00.000-07:00

I have to tell you about a woman I met today...She is 40ish and is a breast cancer survivor...was diagnosed, postpartum, while breastfeeding her newborn baby boy...underwent surgery, chemo, and radiation...to help with her lymphadenopathy, she started making jewelery to use her left arm and hand more vigilantly...helping mobility and decreasing swelling...these are the necklaces she makes...she had one on for me to see...they are beautiful...She uses beads and crystal for the necklace, uses the clasp you see in this picture...the pendant is a fused glass piece (looks like a glass rock...about 1/4 inch thick...and has sparkly cuts...on it, she uses a kiln to fuse a personal photo (usually children or family pictures) to the surface...she uses top grade glazes to make the glass and photo waterproof...she can also put a picture on the back to make it reversible... She also makes matching bracelets and earrings so you would have a set...no pictures on these, just matching beads/crystals...
Not only are her necklaces beautiful, but her story and why she does this makes it even more desirable...Take a look...

The pieces you see here are her necklace with a picture of her 3 children...it is a black and white picture and this necklace is absolutely priceless...so cute...and so different...she gave me permission to tell you all this on the blog and if you are interested in ordering, she has a pretty long waiting list...is taking christmas orders now....I didn't ask about prices, but I have her number if you want to call me...

2008-09-22T08:54:00.000-07:00

It's Monday! I'm catching up finally...we've had an extremely busy couple weeks...spent a lot of time at my mom and dad's this week...basically just messing around most of the time...I'm sure grandpa is ready for some downtime...probably not...seems like he's always up for some playtime with the kids.
We had a fish die this morning...DOA when we got to the kitchen...no meltdowns, but Ava is pretty sure it died of loneliness, so we cleaned the bowl and took the remaining fish (Goldie) to her room where it would get more attention...I hope it doesn't die tonight. I wanted to flush Whiskers (the dead one), but she thought we should throw it in the pond so the other fish could have "something to eat"...she is so tenderhearted...
We're getting ready for the Montgomery home tour on Oct. 5...I think my mom is more nervous about having everything ready than I am...I'm not one to get worked up about the house and everything being perfect...take it as it comes and if you don't like the way it is...it's not my problem...may sound coldhearted, but it's how I choose to live...there are more important things in life than spending all your time working...we can do that when our babies are grown up...Anyway, if anyone wants to buy a ticket, Brittany Ash is selling them and would be glad to have your business...the proceeds go to the senior class for the trip to NY and DC...and it would be a fun day...

Here are some pics from the last couple weeks...

Uncle Ray and the kids at Country Grandma's house

(Ray, Ava, Owen, Amya, and Jacob)

Ava watching as Jacob attempts to slide down the pole at the Montgomery park...no he didn't make it...crashed quite aggressively. No major wounds, but scared his sister and mommy tremendously.

This is Jake's favorite past time...sitting on the couch watching Superman....I'm not real crazy about the show...kinda violent at times...but sometimes I am too soft and just cannot deprive him...I know, I'm a bad mom...NOTE...superman shirt is also a favorite...

Shad teaching Jake how to drive the kubota tractor...He was pretty excited when it moved..."for real", but decided he'd rather go with mommy and Ava on a golfcart ride to Nanny Sue's

Jake truly is a "tough guy"...he spends several hours a day in our garage lifting anything bigger than he is...just to show us how big his muscles are...he always says..."look mommy...I'm big" in his cute little voice..

This is Jacob playing with Mama Phyllis...she's not really his grandma, but she babysat me from newborn till I was too old to be babysat...we still try and visit her and Don frequently...I wish she'd sit my kids like she did me...such a sweet lady...

Have a great day...Jamie

A glimpse of our slumber party

2008-09-16T13:18:00.001-07:00

2008-09-10T05:03:00.000-07:00

Another day at work...I couldn't hardly get up this morning...think I got ready in record time...Got up at 6:16 and was ready, in the kitchen, at 6:35...I even had to iron my whole outfit...I really don't look that bad either...
Today is a long day for us...Ava has school this afternoon and we all have church tonight...I feel for the puggles teachers...Tera and ???? Jacob will be in their class this year...I was gonna offer to help, but his sunday school teachers say he is much more pleasant when I'm not around...so...I'll probably not be present...Maybe I can help somewhere else?? He is such a sweet little guy...just a little mischevious at times:)
Well, first patient is here and ready for me...yeah!! one down...50 bizillion to go...just kidding...I shouldn't complain...I have it pretty easy here... I think.

2008-09-09T06:22:00.000-07:00

We had to take a break from the turkey trot and make cookies...this was at 8:30am friday morning...

Here are some more pictures from our fun-filled weekend:

Taking a road trip to Nanny's house...I know it's not safe but boy was it fun!

Cousin Caleb playing "tackle" with Jacob...

Jonah had to be tackled as well...Ava came in as back up for her little brother..

Cousin Stephanie, Jacob, Ava, and Larry (he taught the kids how to shoot water guns while eating at the Gasthof...thanks Larry...)
Jasen and Lyn are whooped after a weekend in Montgomery...better go back to Michigan now...

2008-09-09T06:17:00.000-07:00

Make a Smilebox slideshow

2008-09-04T20:46:00.000-07:00

Make a Smilebox scrapbook

2008-09-02T06:48:00.000-07:00

We had an exhausting weekend, but made a lot of great memories! I have a lot of pictures to show you, but cannot get them from my camera to my computer for some reason...working on it...anyway, this was the grand finale last night...the kids and Shad feeding our fish...the fish actually jump out of the water to eat...the kids think it is hilarious. They throw the food out and watch the fish respond...Their daddy uses a dust pan to throw the food to the middle...that is where the big fish live and eat...the little guys come to the edge...I'll keep working on the camera and hopefully give you some more info about our weekend later today...

2008-08-28T12:21:00.000-07:00

Yaaa....now that I've figured out the pictures half way...I'll show you a couple more:

This is quite the group of little girls...best friends for sure. Abby Otto, Ava, and Trista Swartzentruber...This was at one of our small group meetings...the girls were upstairs in abby's room and the little boys were downstairs...I think they were asked to leave...

This is another clip from the catfish festival parade...this is Jacob, Landon, Ava, and Addy...Becky's kids...if he isn't a little Tom I don't know who is! I think Jake was spitting at me for taking a picture and Ava has a sucker hanging out of her mouth...such great manners... they must have 2 really great parents!

2008-08-28T10:02:00.000-07:00

Hey everybody! Look what I did! Finally, a picture big enough to see...with a title even!!! Yaaaaaa!!! This is a picture of Ava and Addy Kay Gates (Becky Ash's oldest child)...we all went to the catfish festival parade this year over the 4th...it was a lot of fun...I don't get to see Becky much anymore and really miss talking to her. Her little Addy is a spitting image of her and Landon (her youngest) is a spitting image of his father...I'm still hoping and praying they'll move this way sometime soon...we'll see...

2008-08-27T09:06:00.000-07:00

Another morning...done...whew! I don't know what I'd do if I really had to work...I know my husband probably thinks I'm a big baby...always complaining about stuff...cannot help it...I know I'm high maintenence, but I really think I was born that way...I don't think I've become that way:) Most of my friends are pretty high maintenence too...that's why we get along I guess.

Had a playdate last evening with William, Benjamin, and Harrison Merold...I had a family reunion as well...Nanny Sue, Arlene, Al...good times. The kids had fun...William loves to ride the golf cart and eat whole popsicles...his mom only lets him have a half, but his best friend Jamie lets him have a whole! He also loves to ride the battery powered mustang and Ford...Al took them on a walk around the pond...Jacob wanted to walk on the concrete ledge...told Al that he "wouldn't fall in"...his mom about had a heart attack. The twins screamed all night...not mad...just yelled. They are soooo cute! Ava just tried to keep the calm...she's the mother hen of the group...she was about beat I think.

We have our big preview night at preschool tonight...WC...meet the teacher...It starts at 5:30...I usually pull in my house about 5:25 so it should be really interesting...my babysitter Marsh will have them all bathed, ready, and fed...she is so wonderful...I'm not telling you any more about her...I don't want anyone to try and steal her from me.

2008-08-26T05:51:00.000-07:00

Well, back at work for another day...waiting for my next patient to show up...there is nothing more frustrating than dealing with tardy patients. It really messes up your whole day's schedule...I'm sure Tera can understand what I'm saying...I always "had" a rule that if you were 15 minutes late, you had to reschedule...no exceptions...I guess that's mean. If I'm ever 15 minutes late to my docs...you bet I'll have to reschedule!
Had a couple extra kids last night...brody and trista were over...they had so much fun...me and 4 kids...we went to mom and dads, played in the hose, played on our swingset, had a picnic, barbies, tractors, doll baby, etc. I gave 4 baths and washed 4 heads of hair...I thought my arms were gonna fall off...but it was worth it...we should be grateful for such wonderful children.
Well, still no patient...guess I'm gonna have to go be a rip...You know you just cannot let them get away with it one time or then it can become a habit...sorry for being harsh, but that's the way it goes I guess...It's different if they have a wreck or get behind a wreck, etc...but usually there is no good excuses...maybe some good lies, but no valid reasons...Talk to you all later.

2008-08-25T09:51:00.000-07:00

SORRY...MY TEXT COLOR WAS NOT GOOD AND I'M TRYING TO FIGURE OUT THESE PICTURES! MY LAST POST IS ALL THERE, BUT YOU REALLY HAVE TO LOOK CLOSELY TO READ IT...I WILL DO BETTER NEXT TIME:)

2008-08-25T09:17:00.000-07:00

OK, OK...I'VE CAUGHT A BUNCH OF GRIEF FROM SEVERAL PEOPLE ABOUT NOT UPDATING MY BLOG, SO HERE GOES.

WE HAVE HAD QUITE A BUSY SUMMER THIS YEAR. WE FINISHED OFF OUR SUMMER WITH A BIRTHDAY PARTY FOR MY CITY GRANDMA AT THE GASTHOF...SHE WAS 90 SOMETHING...THE KIDS GOT HER A MUSICAL CARD AND A WALMART GIFT CARD...NEITHER OF WHICH SHE KNEW HOW TO OPERATE. SHE IS THE MOST HAPPY, CONTENT, PATIENT WOMAN I TRULY HAVE EVER KNOWN. I'M TRYING TO INHERIT SOME OF HER TRAITS, BUT I THINK I AM A GENETIC CLONE OF MY FATHER...HE'S A PRETTY GOOD GUY TOO, BUT MAYBE A LITTLE STUBBORN AT TIMES??? ANYWAY, HERE IS A SYNOPSIS SINCE MY LAST POST...

WE SPENT THE 4TH OF JULY WITH MY NEPHEWS FROM MICHIGAN. THEY CAME AND STAYED WITH MY MOM AND DAD FOR A WEEK OR SO. WE DID SEVERAL EXPLOSIVES...MY DAD ALMOST BLEW THE PLACE UP...BUT THE KIDS THOUGHT IT WAS GREAT. WE WENT TO THE FIREWORKS AT WASHINGTON WITH MY LOVING NANNY SUE AND HER FAM...

AFTER THAT, CAME VBS AND THE BIRTHDAY FIASCO FOR THE YEAR...HAVING TWO CHILDREN IN JULY SOUNDED LIKE A GREAT PLAN AT FIRST...UNTIL WE STARTED HAVING BDAY PARTIES ALL MONTH...WE TOOK BOTH KIDS TO BUILD A BEAR (A FAMILY TRADITION WHEN YOU TURN 3), WHERE WE HAD 2 NEW ADDITIONS TO THE FAMILY...RAINBOW AND MATTHEW TRUELOVE...AVA AND JAKE'S NEW BEARS...JAKE HAD A PARTY AT HOME AND AVA HAD A WATER SLIDE (JAKE LOVED IT TOO) FOR THEIR PARTIES...THE ADULTS HAD FUN TOO!

VBS WAS EXCITING...I TAUGHT THE 3 YR OLDS WITH A COUPLE FRIENDS...BOY, WHAT A GROUP! BUT, THEY LOVED EVERY MINUTE...ESPECIALLY CHRIS AND SHAWN WITH THEIR PUPPETS.

WE WENT TO CARRIBEAN COVE...JUST US

4...FOR THE WEEKEND AND HAD A BLAST. I WOULD HIGHLY RECOMMEND IT TO ANYONE. WE JUST RELAXED AND TOOK IT EASY...HUNG OUT AT THE HOTEL MOST OF THE TIME. ALSO VISITED THE CHILDREN'S MUSEUM.

OK...AUGUST...WE HAD A LOT OF BDAY PARTIES TO GO TO THIS MONTH...AUDREY, REED, ISAAC, ETC. THEY WERE ALL A LOT OF FUN, BUT WE DID NOT GET MUCH REST ON THE WEEKENDS. WE ALSO STARTED OUR PMS GROUP AT CHURCH...IT WAS A BIG HIT UNTIL WE GOT SABATOGED BY RITA AND CARMEN:) DON'T BE JEALOUS GIRLS...I CANNOT BE IN THE GROUP AFTER NEXT YEAR EITHER:)

NOW, IT'S AUGUST 25 AND I THINK WE HAVE A WEEK TO OURSELVES. PRESCHOOL NIGHT IS WEDNESDAY, BUT OTHERWISE, NO PLANS...YET.

Looking forward to weekend

2008-07-02T19:42:00.000-07:00

I wanted to apologize if anyone thought my last post was a bit "mushy"...I'm really not that type of person most of the time...Usually my thoughts are pretty private...but, I felt like it was time to let my emotions out...But if you were offended or put off, I'm sorry...
I'm looking forward to a 3 day weekend with the fam...everyone I know is "going camping"...what's the deal...I've never been camping and wouldn't know where to start....what do you do if you don't own a camper? Is there any TV at all? Air? Showers? Just don't know how well me or my kids would tolerate "roughing it"...but am very interested...my friends really seem to enjoy it and some of them are just as fragile as I:)
I'm still working on this blog...I think Mandy is gonna have to help me with the background (template)...I thought I could do it, but not having much luck...also trying to figure out slideshow and etc...I haven't even visited everyone's blog yet...
AND....what's the deal with all the pregnant people??? Did I miss something somewhere...no one told me it was time to conceive again...

My time to Live

2008-06-28T22:28:00.000-07:00

I just thought this verse would be so appropriate for this time in all of our lives...With Mandy, Gabe, Andre, Tera, Brynna, Braylee, Emilee and now a dear friend of mine...Dr. Jerry Hancock's family was suddenly killed in a car accident yesterday... We've all had so many griefs in our lives...even at our age...may not be anything that seems "horrific", but it is all horrific if it happens to you or your family. I feel so lucky to have so many christian friends and family that I could call on your help when I had a time of need. Truly, I believe that my friends now (just a few...Tera, Jen, Krista, Abby, Mandy, Alison, etc) are some of the most compassionate, truthful, Godly women that I've ever known. I really have leaned on them (some of them) lately with some issues that have been on my heart and I just don't know what I'd have done without their love and advice. Another friend, Darla Knepp, has just recently entered my life...she has been a true inspiration to me...I love her dearly and can talk to her as a christian co-pilot. I guess the point of this posting is just to be sure and recognize who the genuine friends are in your life. Not the people who call you to go out every weekend here and there...Not the people who call to tell you the latest gossip about another "friend"....Not the people who want to do something fun on Sunday morning when they should be in church. My genuine friends are people I can call at anytime of day, for any purpose, for any length of time and they will listen to me and hear my every word. Most of them won't give me advice or form an opinion...they simply listen to me and pray for me. My genuine friends are available at any time if I need to talk, cry, scream, etc. and they do not post judgement on me for these emotions...they usually join in with me and we work it out together, with God. I guess I'm talking my way through the important things in my life...they're not what I thought they'd be 20 yrs ago. Diamonds, Gold, expensive gifts are all wonderful...I love them...Really love them....but more than anything (I'd give it all away) my babies, my husband, my family, my relationships, my witness, my friends, my involvement in the church, my daily testimonies to co-workers and patients, etc. These are the things that keep me alive and content despite all the horrible saddening issues going on all around me. I could not make it one day without my christian cd's, my bible verse (if you know me you'll know what verse I'm talking about) pasted on my shelf at eye-view in my office at work, and my cell phone ringing relentlessly from my real friends who need real discussion, prayer, listening, etc.

A day full of sunshine

2008-06-24T13:34:00.000-07:00

Today we slept in until 9:30...it was great. We started the day great...made our beds, brushed our teeth...Jake ate captain crunch (like his cousin Alison), Ava ate frosted flakes, and I ate Honey Smacks. We all got dressed and went to town. We decided on Mcdonalds drive thru for sweet tea and cheeseburgers, then went to Mason's for coneys and cheese fries. We proceeded to go to DCH and ended up eating outside in the lawn, while watching the helicopter land and take off again. My mom, us, and my friend Lyndi Keith ate with us...it was so nice...beautiful outside. This pic was from the lawn...the kids were content in Lyndi's lawnchair...My other friends, Laurel Wagler and Crystal Murphy came by and visited for a few minutes...it was great to catch up and relax.

I'm a Blogger now!!

2008-06-23T20:53:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone! I've been asking why all my friends are creating blogs...now I know why. You all are nuts just like I am! This stuff is addictive! I guess I didn't realize how easy it was. I thought you all were einsteins. Anyway, I really appreciated the updates through septembersweeties, and always enjoy reading about my friends, the Knepps, so decided to do a little blogging myself...please be patient with me...thx

Jamie

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My time to Live

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I'm a Blogger now!!